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So I was having a discussion about kids with a woman who's got four herself, I think, in particular about getting involved with someone who's already got children and would you back off, would you assume they'd completed their family and didn't want any more...
I said that if I got involved with a man and found out he had kids I'd back right off as I don't want to be anyone's stepmother and I'd even be reluctant to get involved with a man who had been married before, although if there were no children in the marriage I might consider it.
Reason being, I want to be my future husband's first and only wife, and if I wanted kids, mother to his only children.
And she said, "Well chick, you are getting old now; there aren't many men your age who don't have kids or haven't been married before, unless you snare a young 'un before they have time to go elsewhere."
Getting old??? I'm 31 in three weeks!!!
God, now I'm so pissed off I can't see straight. Is that really the way other women think? That once you're in your thirties you can't afford to have standards? That you should just settle, because no bloke in his right mind would want a haggard old crone of nearly-31?
Gah!
I said that if I got involved with a man and found out he had kids I'd back right off as I don't want to be anyone's stepmother and I'd even be reluctant to get involved with a man who had been married before, although if there were no children in the marriage I might consider it.
Reason being, I want to be my future husband's first and only wife, and if I wanted kids, mother to his only children.
And she said, "Well chick, you are getting old now; there aren't many men your age who don't have kids or haven't been married before, unless you snare a young 'un before they have time to go elsewhere."
Getting old??? I'm 31 in three weeks!!!
God, now I'm so pissed off I can't see straight. Is that really the way other women think? That once you're in your thirties you can't afford to have standards? That you should just settle, because no bloke in his right mind would want a haggard old crone of nearly-31?
Gah!