I got mostly good review for TPB except the one I really wanted: Publishers Weekly. They didn't really give it a scathing review, but they totally missed the point of the story. And that one stung, because it was frigging PW.
Then I realized, hey, you know what, not everyone got reviewed in PW, and I got a spread. That must count for something. Not every first author from a small press get even a mention, and I got a full review! And how many people actually read PW reviews anyway. Not your normal readers. So I tried to let it go.
What became more important to me was how my actual readers reacted to the book. Their reviews were more important to me than some reviewers who only skimped through the book and wrote on first impression. And I must say 99% of my readers liked it, and that's good enough for me.
So in short, I try to have a good attitude about it, and that one review is not going to kill me or my career. And it didn't. I also had to remind myself that many great writers got bad reviews, too -- yes, even in PW. And I was in good company.