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Okay. I am taking a class from AW for writing for magazines, and my first article is going to be about wedding ettiquette.
There are tons of articles about wedding traditions in the magazines I read as a bride and the ones I just bought in the last couple weeks. But what I stressed over as a bride wasn't what traditions I wanted to follow. That was easy. Our wedding style, and chosen traditions, fell into place. But There is a lot of wedding ettiquette I didn't even know about as a wedding guest that I found out about as a bride. I stressed over little things like whether or not to use two envelopes.
As a bride (or groom) were there wedding ettiquette issues that you stressed over. Was there ettiquette you eshewed, and why? Are there things you feel are absolutely imperitive, even if it stresses you out?
Some examples I've come up with so far....
One or two envelopes?
Labels or hand addressing invitations.
How to handle people you marginally know who assume they're invited.
Inviting out of town guests to the rehearsal dinner.
Registry cards in invites: Yes or No.
My aim is to outline a few different ettiquette practices and why they exist and to help ease the bride's stress and realize why some exist and which ones you can ignore and which ones are imperitive.
Okay so this is rambling a bit. If you have thoughts on the above or had issues with other practices I'd love to hear from you.
Right now I am just working on the queary, but if I actally get the assignment I might ask more indepth questions or need your name for the magazine. Here's hopin'. If you are interested in sharing, just pm me.
There are tons of articles about wedding traditions in the magazines I read as a bride and the ones I just bought in the last couple weeks. But what I stressed over as a bride wasn't what traditions I wanted to follow. That was easy. Our wedding style, and chosen traditions, fell into place. But There is a lot of wedding ettiquette I didn't even know about as a wedding guest that I found out about as a bride. I stressed over little things like whether or not to use two envelopes.
As a bride (or groom) were there wedding ettiquette issues that you stressed over. Was there ettiquette you eshewed, and why? Are there things you feel are absolutely imperitive, even if it stresses you out?
Some examples I've come up with so far....
One or two envelopes?
Labels or hand addressing invitations.
How to handle people you marginally know who assume they're invited.
Inviting out of town guests to the rehearsal dinner.
Registry cards in invites: Yes or No.
My aim is to outline a few different ettiquette practices and why they exist and to help ease the bride's stress and realize why some exist and which ones you can ignore and which ones are imperitive.
Okay so this is rambling a bit. If you have thoughts on the above or had issues with other practices I'd love to hear from you.
Right now I am just working on the queary, but if I actally get the assignment I might ask more indepth questions or need your name for the magazine. Here's hopin'. If you are interested in sharing, just pm me.