Yes, a moral question, (I do have morals, I keep them in a box and trot them out from time to time for a bit of fresh air and exercise):
As part of the terms for divorce, I had to ‘buy’ my house from the WART. He got $50,000.00 in August 2006. He has some outstanding credit card debt, but he lives in his brother’s basement.
Problem: He has never contributed a cent to our son’s college expenses. I paid the first year out of my retirement savings. Grandma and Aunts helped with the next semester because I was (and have been since 2000) shouldering all of the family financial burden and paying a divorce lawyer.
My son is smart. He lives at home and I don’t charge him rent. (Yes, he helps around the house.) I'm tired of him having to work full time and be exhausted all the time just to pay for classes and books. I am tapped out…see sentence one…I have no more credit, and no longer have enough equity to tap.
Question: Should I send an open e-mail to his family asking them to pressure WART to help pay for his son’s education? (I mean since WART’s father paid for all of his kids to go to school at GW, and WART never had to worry that when he signed up for classes there may not be money to pay.)
As part of the terms for divorce, I had to ‘buy’ my house from the WART. He got $50,000.00 in August 2006. He has some outstanding credit card debt, but he lives in his brother’s basement.
Problem: He has never contributed a cent to our son’s college expenses. I paid the first year out of my retirement savings. Grandma and Aunts helped with the next semester because I was (and have been since 2000) shouldering all of the family financial burden and paying a divorce lawyer.
My son is smart. He lives at home and I don’t charge him rent. (Yes, he helps around the house.) I'm tired of him having to work full time and be exhausted all the time just to pay for classes and books. I am tapped out…see sentence one…I have no more credit, and no longer have enough equity to tap.
Question: Should I send an open e-mail to his family asking them to pressure WART to help pay for his son’s education? (I mean since WART’s father paid for all of his kids to go to school at GW, and WART never had to worry that when he signed up for classes there may not be money to pay.)