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You get interested in a guy/gal, ask them out and go on a few dates. You have a good time, and think you like this person. How do you know, or decide, that this is the right person for you? Is it mere a gut feeling? Or you carefully evaluate him/her and your experience with them before committing yourself? Do you take into account factors like personality, character etc?
I am thinking of pitching this to a teen mag, might need to quote some of you but generally looking for opinions so that I can take everything into perspective while crafting the piece.
Your insights, observations are welcome.
Thanks so much!
Edit :
While I was chewing over this today, some more questions surfaced. I want to know more on how people feel about personality differences in the "matters of the heart" (LOL).
I read in a book Personality Plus ( by Florence Litthauer), that people with opposite, or considerably different personalities (shy-outgoing, ambitious-low profile) make great couples. Now, I know that's not the final word written about it, and lots of discrepancies occur. So, what's your take on it?
I tend to think, being an outgoing-ambitious person, that I am more inclined towards falling for folks who are like a bit shy, serious etc etc.
And does having similar interests help?
I am thinking of pitching this to a teen mag, might need to quote some of you but generally looking for opinions so that I can take everything into perspective while crafting the piece.
Your insights, observations are welcome.
Thanks so much!
Edit :
While I was chewing over this today, some more questions surfaced. I want to know more on how people feel about personality differences in the "matters of the heart" (LOL).
I read in a book Personality Plus ( by Florence Litthauer), that people with opposite, or considerably different personalities (shy-outgoing, ambitious-low profile) make great couples. Now, I know that's not the final word written about it, and lots of discrepancies occur. So, what's your take on it?
I tend to think, being an outgoing-ambitious person, that I am more inclined towards falling for folks who are like a bit shy, serious etc etc.
And does having similar interests help?
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