It was considered normal for women to be homemakers and men to earn the family income. It wasn't some devious plan to oppress women, it was simply the culture.
I grew up in the 50's and 60's, and this is a very good insight from Gary. It was just the way things were -- not something sinister on the part of men. After WWII, most people just wanted to get back to normal life and that meant the husbands worked and the women were homemakers or worked only at certain jobs.
The job section of the newspaper was divided into jobs for men and jobs for women, and it was not acceptable for women to apply for a job listed under "Men." The jobs for women were mainly as secretaries, nurses, clerks and teachers. I remember being shocked the first time I saw a woman driving a school bus! But to be fair, early buses, like early cars, didn't have power steering and power brakes, so the operator needed a lot of strength to drive them.
Home Ec. was important, and we were taught that we should clean up the kids and ourselves before our husbands came home from work, always look nice, and maintain a calm home environment. We were taught to sew and cook.
I wold imagine a rural woman -- depending on where she lived -- would spend her time canning vegetables from her garden and making jam from fruit from her trees, as well as maintaining a clean house, hanging laundry on the line (very few dryers and no disposable diapers!!!), and cooking (no microwaves so it took a lo-o-o-ong time!).
We wore dresses, even to school and even in freezing weather. I remember waiting for the school bus and squatting down so my coat covered my legs to keep them warm.
We also dressed up to go out, to go to the grocery, or to go shopping "downtown." We NEVER wore shorts or slacks expect in our own house or yard, or when camping (of course a rural woman might have worn slacks, but not necessarily. I guess it depended on what she was doing.)
I think the attitude of most women, which is what you wanted to know about, was -- for the most part -- one of acceptance and pride, and since their husbands (in general) valued their contribution to the family, they felt like they were doing something important. Of course there are always exceptions to everything, so this can't be thought of as a blanket statement for everyone.
However, there were also frustrations. My mother (who was born in 1921) was still angry during her adult life that her brothers and her father got to read the Sunday paper and the comics as soon as they finished breakfast, while she had to clear the table, do the dishes and other chores before she was allow to read. She also wanted to go to college, but they didn't have the money. If they had, her brothers would have gone -- not her.
So it's a mixed bag. And I guess a lot depends on how much money you had and the attitudes of the people around you.
Let me know if you have any questions. Good luck with your story!