Jenna brought this up in her e-newsletter this week (and if there is already a thread on another board, please let me know!). How friendly are you in your professional writing relationships? In a world where most of us do our professional interactions via e-mail and phone calls, it's difficult to create the kind of camaraderie and intimacy of an office, and some probably like it that way. For others, it seems strange to interact with these people semi-daily and not know a single detail about them, other than their preferences for semi-colons over dashes.
Do you and your editors ever just chat about sports? Does your publisher ask how your daughter’s school play went? Does your agent know your birthday? Do you share major events (like pregnancy) with them on a casual basis? If so, who initiated the non-business side of the relationship?
I have a fairly friendly relationship with one of my editors who knows about my day job, major life events, etc. My agent and I are pretty much on a business-only correspondence. The rest of my business contacts run the gamut, but I always wonder about other writers and how they do it. Fill me in?
Do you and your editors ever just chat about sports? Does your publisher ask how your daughter’s school play went? Does your agent know your birthday? Do you share major events (like pregnancy) with them on a casual basis? If so, who initiated the non-business side of the relationship?
I have a fairly friendly relationship with one of my editors who knows about my day job, major life events, etc. My agent and I are pretty much on a business-only correspondence. The rest of my business contacts run the gamut, but I always wonder about other writers and how they do it. Fill me in?