You ever have something that haunts you?
I was just watching the story about Tracy Dean, the woman who-- based on gut instinct-- called police about a little girl she'd met in a gas station, to say "I'm 99% sure she's not supposed to be with the man she's with." 9 minutes later, the police called her back and said the man was her grandfather, nothing to worry about. So she went home. But it bothered her too much, and she wound up driving something like 250 miles back to that gas station, insisted on looking at the store's video tape, and followed up with police again. Long story short: the couple had been sexually abusing the little girl and a 17-year-old boy, and probably many other kids. No one even knows who the kids are at this point, but they're in foster care.
Anyway. Back when I was about 16, I was on a town bus. In the back of the bus was a trashy couple and a little girl, maybe 3 or 4 years old. The woman was yelling at the girl, shoving her into the back of the bus seat, and saying, "I should have left you at your grandmother's house." The girl cried the whole way, and the woman told her to shut up and said horrible things (I don't remember all the details now... long time ago).
I turned around and was working up my nerve to say something. The woman said, "You like what you see? Unless you like what you're looking at, you'd better turn your *** back around and mind your business."
I got out at the next stop and called police from the nearest pay phone. I told them where I had gotten on the bus, but I wasn't good enough at identifying the bus route-- they asked me where it was going, what the bus number was, what time it picked me up, etc. and I didn't know any of those things. They told me unconvincingly that they'd send police to the end of the bus line, and that was that.
My regrets are that I did it anonymously (I was scared of the couple) and that I didn't follow up. You have no idea how often I think about that little girl and how I know darn well she was being abused and I could have done so much more to stop it.
You have anything like that?
I was just watching the story about Tracy Dean, the woman who-- based on gut instinct-- called police about a little girl she'd met in a gas station, to say "I'm 99% sure she's not supposed to be with the man she's with." 9 minutes later, the police called her back and said the man was her grandfather, nothing to worry about. So she went home. But it bothered her too much, and she wound up driving something like 250 miles back to that gas station, insisted on looking at the store's video tape, and followed up with police again. Long story short: the couple had been sexually abusing the little girl and a 17-year-old boy, and probably many other kids. No one even knows who the kids are at this point, but they're in foster care.
Anyway. Back when I was about 16, I was on a town bus. In the back of the bus was a trashy couple and a little girl, maybe 3 or 4 years old. The woman was yelling at the girl, shoving her into the back of the bus seat, and saying, "I should have left you at your grandmother's house." The girl cried the whole way, and the woman told her to shut up and said horrible things (I don't remember all the details now... long time ago).
I turned around and was working up my nerve to say something. The woman said, "You like what you see? Unless you like what you're looking at, you'd better turn your *** back around and mind your business."
I got out at the next stop and called police from the nearest pay phone. I told them where I had gotten on the bus, but I wasn't good enough at identifying the bus route-- they asked me where it was going, what the bus number was, what time it picked me up, etc. and I didn't know any of those things. They told me unconvincingly that they'd send police to the end of the bus line, and that was that.
My regrets are that I did it anonymously (I was scared of the couple) and that I didn't follow up. You have no idea how often I think about that little girl and how I know darn well she was being abused and I could have done so much more to stop it.
You have anything like that?