erika said:
I just had a question about Nateskate's post. I was moved by what he said, but I have to ask. If we don't see the good, is that our failure or God's?
I ask because my mom was a Catholic, her husband died at thirty and four months later she learned that her son (my brother) had cystic fibrosis. She has sworn off religion (and yes, God) ever since. Some will say that her faith wasn't strong to begin with. But whose faith could ever be strong enough? And if it's the Holy Spirit that works in us, then couldn't she contend that she simply didn't have the spirit. It's a predestination/free will question I know. But the point remains, her son just died and she's still angry. Who can blame her? And how can we see the good if we are predisposed to see the bad?
Tell me that and maybe you can tell me how to reach my mom. But I guess no one has that answer, exept God and He isn't sharing it with us. Is He?
Erika
My poor dear, my friend's daughter just died of Cystic Fibrosis- nasty illness. Why didn't you just say this first? I'm not counseling or ministering, but just writing as a friend. If great faith was all that matters then why did Paul tell someone he needed to take a bit of wine for his stomach ailment?- Why not pray and have it done with. Doesn't God heal everyone? Some people will say yes. - If we all had faith...- Later I will make a point that our "FAITH" is not the most important thing. It's important, but God considers LOVE far more important, and he will focus on teaching us LOVE at the testing of our FAITH.
Why didn't God heal Paul, who had all kinds of faith? In Galatians Paul talked about having an eye condition that led him to preach the Gospel to them? Probably got infirm passing through and got stuck there.
I believe in faith. I believe God heals. I've seen healings. God doesn't heal everything or everyone. I believe God does heal, and faith matters. I've prayed and seen people healed-crooked bones straighten...etc. And at one time I thought that was supposed to happen all the time, and I got miffed-questioned my faith- when people died. Then I grew up-I think?
Ah, then you see the people who die, who don't get healed. And you ask, "Why?" We have to ask why or we never grow.
I'll tell you one secret.
If God gives you the wound, he generally won't cure it. Huh! Duh! - that goes against a great deal of theology. It was God that put Jacobs hip out of joint and Jacob walked with a limb the rest of his life. Why didn't God heal him? Because the limp forced him to walk humbly, something the stubborn Patriarch- the manipulator who outsmarted everyone- might not have done otherwise. He caused Paul to get instant cataracts- which will happen in extreme light- which God appeared to Saul/Paul in. Remember two scales fell out of his eyes when he was prayed for- his damaged lenses popped out- and he saw- instant cataract surgery. So, Paul has a lifelong eye problem. "See with what large letters I've written to you..."
The fact that he wasn't healed didn't mean God was against him, God didn't love him or he didn't have faith. In fact Jesus said in Acts, that he showed Paul what things he MUST SUFFER..." God is more interested in US and others- he's not trying to win a popularity contest by keeping us perpetually happy or entertained. If suffering brings good God will allow it. If it makes us grow up, he'll allow it. If it forces us to question our immaturity, or faithfulness, all the areas we as individuals and as a church are difficient, he will do that.
Love is greater than Faith: Period. God will spare nothing to work on our love. He will allow sick people so people can visit them- Matthew 25. He will allow hungry people so others can feed them. God is not going to remove opportunities for us to love. - even in the church. If we all learned the lesson and God could let us all go to Disneyland and have fun all the time, we would forget the lesson, start getting selfish and self-centered, and he'd have to take away our Disney pass. There is a correlation between a too easy life and being spoiled.
You see in 1 Corinthians 13- Paul says FAITH is NOTHING without love. Faith, hope and love abide, but the greatest of these is love. Love first. Love is foremost.
God is (cough...) more interested in our LOVE than our FAITH. Christ died to prove God's love. "For God so loved...he gave..." And Paul says in Romans eight, "if he did not withhold his son from us, will he not give us ALL THINGS beside..." But if you read all of Romans 8- The world is futile. We suffer. Suffering does not separate us from the love of God. Paul compares this suffering to a vapor. God loves us, life is hard. All in the same breath.
Next lesson on faith and healing- God deals with us as a corporate entity. Not only does he deal with individuals, but the church as a body, and nations as an entity. At any level in that structure if there is something that blocks the flow of blessing- and the Bible is clear that these things exist - because of ignorance- willful and otherwise- it blocks the flow of answers to prayer. In 1 Corinthians 11- it says "...for this reason many become sick and some have died..." Sorry for this- Huh/Duh-the sound of Christians gasping. You mean that if the "Church is screwed up" it can block the flow of blessings to individuals. Yes. And it can unleash curses.
In Revelation God warns Christians to leave a certain place that is about to be judged- because they would also suffer. If the tent has a leak, all underneath will get wet. If a nation opens doors to a curse, everyone in the nation is at risk good and bad. Whether God loves them doesn't matter.
If you read the Law- this is true with nations - which is why it is foolish for nations to dismiss spiritual laws. Example. Deut 27 "Cursed is he who dishonors mother or father..." A nation whose children have contempt for their parents can unleash all kinds of harm and disaster. Confirmation- read the last chapter of Malichi- "And I will send...and he will turn the hearts of the children to the fathers and the hearts of the fathers to the children LEST I SMITE THE LAND WITH A CURSE..."
People don't realize that spiritual laws are like laws of gravity, they are indifferent. "Whatever a man sows that shall he reap" Good man? Bad man? - by God's mercy so many times we are spared. But the point is that the whole world violates spiritual principles to their harm all the time.
I didn't write a "Christian Epic Fantasy" but it is big on spiritual laws/blessings and curses.
Next sort of lesson. It could be "NEITHER"- God's not teaching anyone a lesson. No one did anything wrong. And people still suffer. When Jesus encountered a man born blind, the disciples couldn't imagine a good God allowing such a thing. So they ask a brilliant but idiotic question, "Whose fault is this- his or his father's sin"
They think this guy is born blind because of HIS SIN. Sad when you blame a baby for sin when they can't comprehend sin. Jesus said "If you were truly blind you would have no sin..." Meaning God doesn't hold the sin of those who can't comprehend sin against them. No baby is born with a disease because of THEIR fault.
Interesting, Jesus doesn't decline it's God's fault. HUH?DUH! It's not the devil's fault? It's not sin's fault? It's not bad luck?
Jesus implies it
is God's fault. He blames it on the fact that God wants to do something good through this blind person's life.
When Moses tried to get out of the ministry, he argues with God saying he has a speech impediment. "no...no..no...Lord..I...I can't...t.t.t.talk.
God says to Mose, "WHO HAS MAD MAN'S MOUTH speaking or deaf, or WHO HAS MADE MAN'S eyes- seeing or blind- IS IT NOT I THE LORD..." God offers to heal Moses mouth. And Moses still fights with him. Guess who becomes the Mouth of God? Aaron, the brother he winds up building the Golden Calf that leads the nation astray. - come on Moses! Just say yes!
THat blows me away. God takes credit for flaws/deformities...etc. Well, I never asked for flaws. - I never asked for my kids to have flaws. (My son had to be cardioverted- have a heart defect fixed- ended up in the hospital recently) Of course, I'm not saying, "Why God?" But I know lots of Christians who either had been born with major problems or children born with major problems, that the love of God is not the issue. God knew/knows. In fact he tells Jeremiah in chapter one he knows us BEFORE we are concieved. Hmmm.
Back to the point, I don't feel I have to defend God. If someone is pissed he was made a certain way. Hey, I don't blame it on the devil, or their lack of faith.
Look at poor old Job. Know why he got to suffer? Because he was the most righteous person on the earth. Came out of God's own mouth in chapter one. Honestly, I started writing a book on Job. The book makes sense to me. But most people can't understand there are still Jobs. I'll keep it all a secret in case I decide to finish the book. But there is more than I can ever write on this subject.
Back to the most important point. "God works all things together for the good for those who love him..." (Romans 8:28)
Your/my/our "FAITH" is secondary to our "LOVE". God will allow all sorts of contradictions that test our faith, because his highest purpose is our love.
God's not so much interested with being popular just as a parent will allow their kids to get pissed at them because the mom/dad want to keep their kids from killing themselves. So, God will do things that absolutely push our faith to the brink until we comprehend "LOVE". God wants to form "CHRIST" in us. - or help us be the best we could possibly be.
I've written on this subject long time ago. But without suffering, we would become the most immature/carnal/foolhardy things alive. We are so prone to pride- and other such things, if God didn't allow a certain amount of suffering in our lives, we'd be hopeless.
Paul said in Romans, "What's more we rejoice in our SUFFERING...for suffering produces...CHARACTER" We don't like this, but suffering makes us better people.
The Bible says, "Hope deferred dries up the bones" Translation- If we get false expectations that God promised something he didn't promise, and it what we thought God was supposed to do doesn't happen, we'll get depressed."
This is why it's so important to understand exactly what God promises- some people get messed up with false expectations. Sure God heals. Sure God loves. But healing doesn't always equate to love. And people who get healings are not better Christians. People who do not get healed are not worse Christians. Do you remember when Jesus said that God causes his sun to shine on all and his rain to fall on all (Paraphrased) - God allows good to come to all. God allows hardships to come to all. Because God loves all. The disciples got this wrong and wanted to nuke a town that rejected Jesus. Jesus rebuked them and told them they had the "wrong spirit"- "I came to save...not condemn..."
Well, hope that helps some.
Nate.