TanaMom2JAM
Hello,
I have been 'camping out' here for a few days and pouring over every word and bit of advice. What a treasure trove!
I am impressed with the support and humor shown here. This seems to be the place to ask for insight and advice so here goes....
I feel my 'calling' is to write about my children and various life experiences. I would consider my writing style to fall in the personal essay/non-fiction category. The majority of things I have written have come from challenges and overcoming tragedies.
I have three sons and a daughter who was stillborn. Each of my sons is considered disabled. The two older boys have a form of cerebral palsy and epilepsy. Each has cheated death several times in their young lives and taken a few years off my life for each hair raising incident:wha
My baby was born with down syndrome and fits perfectly into our wacky little family. According to my pediatrician, our family defies medical odds of having three bio kids with disabilities. I asked him if the AMA gave out prizes for that sort of thing...he told me he thought it healthy that I have a sense of humor.
So, if I write what I know...hmmmmm...that would be raising kids with physical and mental challenges, seeing the 'sunshine through the rain', vigils by hospital beds, hours of belly button gazing contemplating how a geeky kid grew up to be a punk rocker who grew up some more and got her life together and ended up as a mom to three amazing boys. In between all of those events were moments of other medical miracles, a divorce, remarriage, death of a child, a 'jaunt' into the adult entertainment industry(a story for another time:ssh ) and other life lessons.
Deep in my heart I believe my words and stories are to convey a message of encouragement to my reader. I firmly believe that no matter how crappy our lives may be it is still possible to look around and find someone who is going through something far worse(which usually puts an end to my own pity parties) and I believe that there are lessons to be learned in everything that transpires in our lives. These are the things I attempt to convey when I write.
It is only recently that I have truly admitted my desire to share my 'work/heart' with people I don't know. My self image wasn't confident enough to just put it out there for all to see. Several things have transpired and changed my attitude.
I belong to an online email group and one of our members is a published author(hmmm...do I use this moment to name drop? nahhhh) and she has been gracious enough to read some of my essays and has encouraged me to start 'putting it out there', as she thinks I have talent.
The biggest change though, has come from wanting to encourage other parents with special needs kids and to de-mystify the world of the disabled. One commonly held belief I hear from people is, "God must think you are special to give you such special kids" and my standard reply is, "Me special? No, God just has me on his accelerated self-improvement course because of all the time I wasted in my life and at this rate, I expect to be darn near perfect by the time they are 18."
Ok, it is late...so, I will get to the point. I am open to feedback and input from the pros here as to the what/when/where/how/ stuff. I know I am tired when I start using the word 'stuff'...anyway, I guess what I am asking for is suggestions as to how to market my particular style and what avenues I might pursue. Please don't flame me for spelling or grammar...that is what my 11 yr old is for:lol
Another sure sign of fatigue is when I want to find a place for all the smileys in my text...
I look forward to getting to know the people on this board and cheering for each other's successes.
Going to bed now,
Tana R
I have been 'camping out' here for a few days and pouring over every word and bit of advice. What a treasure trove!
I am impressed with the support and humor shown here. This seems to be the place to ask for insight and advice so here goes....
I feel my 'calling' is to write about my children and various life experiences. I would consider my writing style to fall in the personal essay/non-fiction category. The majority of things I have written have come from challenges and overcoming tragedies.
I have three sons and a daughter who was stillborn. Each of my sons is considered disabled. The two older boys have a form of cerebral palsy and epilepsy. Each has cheated death several times in their young lives and taken a few years off my life for each hair raising incident:wha
My baby was born with down syndrome and fits perfectly into our wacky little family. According to my pediatrician, our family defies medical odds of having three bio kids with disabilities. I asked him if the AMA gave out prizes for that sort of thing...he told me he thought it healthy that I have a sense of humor.
So, if I write what I know...hmmmmm...that would be raising kids with physical and mental challenges, seeing the 'sunshine through the rain', vigils by hospital beds, hours of belly button gazing contemplating how a geeky kid grew up to be a punk rocker who grew up some more and got her life together and ended up as a mom to three amazing boys. In between all of those events were moments of other medical miracles, a divorce, remarriage, death of a child, a 'jaunt' into the adult entertainment industry(a story for another time:ssh ) and other life lessons.
Deep in my heart I believe my words and stories are to convey a message of encouragement to my reader. I firmly believe that no matter how crappy our lives may be it is still possible to look around and find someone who is going through something far worse(which usually puts an end to my own pity parties) and I believe that there are lessons to be learned in everything that transpires in our lives. These are the things I attempt to convey when I write.
It is only recently that I have truly admitted my desire to share my 'work/heart' with people I don't know. My self image wasn't confident enough to just put it out there for all to see. Several things have transpired and changed my attitude.
I belong to an online email group and one of our members is a published author(hmmm...do I use this moment to name drop? nahhhh) and she has been gracious enough to read some of my essays and has encouraged me to start 'putting it out there', as she thinks I have talent.
The biggest change though, has come from wanting to encourage other parents with special needs kids and to de-mystify the world of the disabled. One commonly held belief I hear from people is, "God must think you are special to give you such special kids" and my standard reply is, "Me special? No, God just has me on his accelerated self-improvement course because of all the time I wasted in my life and at this rate, I expect to be darn near perfect by the time they are 18."
Ok, it is late...so, I will get to the point. I am open to feedback and input from the pros here as to the what/when/where/how/ stuff. I know I am tired when I start using the word 'stuff'...anyway, I guess what I am asking for is suggestions as to how to market my particular style and what avenues I might pursue. Please don't flame me for spelling or grammar...that is what my 11 yr old is for:lol
Another sure sign of fatigue is when I want to find a place for all the smileys in my text...
I look forward to getting to know the people on this board and cheering for each other's successes.
Going to bed now,
Tana R