sportscribe said:
James,
There were other concerns, though. In my reserach with publishers my agent submitted to, I discovered some of them had passed without my agent informing me. Because I hadn't heard from him, I figured 5 or 6 publishers were still considering, but found out 4 had passed and only 2 were considering.
As a client, I deserved updates. So, it wasn't just my impatience that was running low, but I had other concerns.
You do deserve updates, but not everyday, and not just because one or two or four publishers rejected your work. You should be updated on a regular, periodic timetable.
You either trust your agent or you don't. If you do, then be patient and let him do his job. If you don't, then find a new agent, but don't expect that agent to inform you of every rejection, either.
Frustration usually comes because you're sitting around waiting. Once you manuscript is in the hands of an agent, then it's no longer in your hands. Forget about it. There isn't one thing you can do to speed up the process, and assuming your agent is any good, he's already done everything he can do to speed up the process, which is darned little. There are things you can do to rerail teh process, and it sounds like you're doing them all.
If this agent is, as you say, established, if he has a track record of sales to good publishers, the leave him alone and let him do his job. He got that track record by doing for other writers exactly what he's doing right now for you.
If you sit around waiting, you'll never find an agent you think is good enough. This is a waiting business on the agent/publisher end, but it's a writing business of the writer's end.
At this point, you should be so hard at work on your next novel that you don't have time to worry about the one making the rounds. And it may have to make a LOT of rounds before it finds a home. Your agent is probably a very busy person. he should have many other selling writers he has to deal with, and probably a reasonable number of new writers he has to deal with. He has contracts to handle, deals to negotiate, royalties to pay out, and all sorts of other things to do.
His job is to get your manuscript on the desk of the editors most likely to want it. It sounds as if he's done this. When he has something constructive to tell you, I'm sure he will.
Just do your job, which is writing the next novel, and let him do his job, which is trying to sell the first novel.