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So, as my daughter is coming into her womanhood she is nursing her first broken heart, and I am having difficulty finding just the right words to console her. How can I tell her that it is only the first of many? How can I assure her that in context, which of course is years away, it will be a blip on her screen? How can I try to put it in perspective for her without diminishing her lost love? How can I convince her that it was just a phase, that it just wasn't meant to be, when she looks at me through those teary eyes?
Anyone over a certain age has been through it, but I'm faced with that challenge familiar to all parents when we've tried to spare our kids the worst of the pain and impart a wisdom that we know we didn't have at their age and that only came to us through taking our lumps. Seeking advice and anecdotes, thanks!
ETA: Not only looking for advice from parents, I should have made that clear. How 'bout yourself? What tactics did you find helpful in curing your own broken heart?
Anyone over a certain age has been through it, but I'm faced with that challenge familiar to all parents when we've tried to spare our kids the worst of the pain and impart a wisdom that we know we didn't have at their age and that only came to us through taking our lumps. Seeking advice and anecdotes, thanks!
ETA: Not only looking for advice from parents, I should have made that clear. How 'bout yourself? What tactics did you find helpful in curing your own broken heart?
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