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majiklmoon

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The rejection to an email query is bad, but not so bad because you hit the delete button and the evil offending item is gone *poof* it never existed. The snail mail rejection, however, is far worse. Those offending words stare back at you in dark black type, mocking you.

Sure, you can rip it up, but it's still there....the evil little shreds of paper are decorating the trash can, staring back at you whenever you go to throw something out.

*sigh* - guess what I got today lol
 

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Burn it and move on.

Try not to dwell on it. Keep writing and keep submitting. An acceptance might be just around the corner! (easier for me to say, than to believe in for myself, I might add)
 

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I'm sorry. I know how it feels. You just have to keep submitting, though.

Gosh, I'm such a hypocrite; I'm still smarting from the last rejection. Get this, I got two for the same novel from TOR.
 

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This is why I started the Writer's Block Project about a thousand years ago. Yes, the site needs some desperate attention and, yes, I should've had an exhibit up by now . . . anyway, it's meant to put a positve spin on rejection using art. :)

I'm sorry you feel down about this. I hope you get a positive response soon to lift your spirits . . . or an email you can delete! :Hug2:
 

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Don't let it get you down. I got a request for my full manuscript yesterday that could still lead to a rejection, and a form rejection from another agency in the mail today, and not even on a full sheet of paper. I have a folder *full* of form rejection letters and an email box full of them, too. (I never destroy mine.)

Keep writing. While you might never sell a book you submit, you'll never sell one you never submit.
 
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Think positive.

Rejections can be used for:

a) papering one's lavatory walls.

b) shredding, to make hamster bedding.

c) loft insulation.

d) wrapping presents for people you don't really like.

e) wrapping yourself in, when your chosen profession forces you to starve in a garret.
 

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...but I just use them to let me know who to send to next.

Yes, it hurts, but everybody gets them.

Now on you go - and better luck next time.

:Hug2:
 

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arrowqueen said:
Think positive.

Rejections can be used for:

a) papering one's lavatory walls.

b) shredding, to make hamster bedding.

c) loft insulation.

d) wrapping presents for people you don't really like.

e) wrapping yourself in, when your chosen profession forces you to starve in a garret.


Hee hee hee...I like these A LOT!
 

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Rejection slip

Don't throw it away. But two small bulletin boards. Hang them on a wall side by side. Pin the rejection neatly to the first. Beneath it pin the words: To every thing there is a season,

Leave the second small bulletin board blank, but at the bottom of it pin the words:
and a time to every purpose under the heaven.

This second bulletin board is where you'll eventually pin the acceptance letter.

I have a good friend who got published just this way. The first bulletin board reminded him that he was trying, and that it was simply the season for rejection. The second encouaraged him to keep trying, and he eventuallt pinned his first acceptance letter directly over the words,
and a time to every purpose under the heaven.
 

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Dammit, James. Now I'm singing that and revealing my age!
 

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Jamesaritchie said:
Don't throw it away. But two small bulletin boards. Hang them on a wall side by side. Pin the rejection neatly to the first. Beneath it pin the words: To every thing there is a season,

Leave the second small bulletin board blank, but at the bottom of it pin the words:
and a time to every purpose under the heaven.

This second bulletin board is where you'll eventually pin the acceptance letter.

I have a good friend who got published just this way. The first bulletin board reminded him that he was trying, and that it was simply the season for rejection. The second encouaraged him to keep trying, and he eventuallt pinned his first acceptance letter directly over the words,
and a time to every purpose under the heaven.

I suppose I could unmake my paper airplane and do that, but it flew so well lol.
 

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arrowqueen said:
Dammit, James. Now I'm singing that and revealing my age!



I know, dangit. Now I can't get the tune out of my head, either.
 

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Lol. Hell mend you! Serves you bloody well right!
 

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Branwyn said:
It beats the 'Sponge Bob' tune I've had in my head since babysitting...UGH!

Who...Lives in a Pineapple under the sea?
SpongeBob SquarePants

Absorbant and yellow and pourous is he.
SpongeBob SquarePants
 

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majiklmoon said:
Who...Lives in a Pineapple under the sea?
SpongeBob SquarePants

Absorbant and yellow and pourous is he.
SpongeBob SquarePants



Oh, great! I need a drink. Sponge Bob in your head is almost as bad as having Barney there.
 

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Jamesaritchie said:
Oh, great! I need a drink. Sponge Bob in your head is almost as bad as having Barney there.


passes James the tequila
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