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I'm in a bit of a reflective mood this evening. I get this way around this time of year. Fall back into times when I was happiest (or saddest) all for the sake of nostalgia.

I read somewhere once (forget where) that to move into the future you have to embrace your past. Whether this is just mumbo-jumbo or not, I like to take that ride once in awhile.

While doing this, it got me thinkin'...what happened to all the Drive-In Movie theatres? There's been a-many nice summer evenings where I felt like going to one. There used to be a few around the city. Now the closest is about an hour and a half away in a farmer's field like in Field of Dreams. The projector flashing a cornucopia of colours off of a four storey white canvas in the middle of the night. FM radios tuned to just the right frequency bringing everything into focus. The silly attempts to make a bad movie better by tuning into another channel (talk, preferably) to see if anything matches or creates a psychotropic mish-mash akin to Pink Floyd's Dark Side of the Moon/Wizard of Oz. The cool smell of motor oil, and dirt, and popcorn, and fresh cut grass. The feeling as if the show is just for you as you sit in your car with your loved one (for those who actually watch the movie in times like that ;) ) with the stars opened up above.

I sometimes think it would be a good idea to open one up closer to the city. Revive the hey-day of the drive-in. I wasn't born the last time it happened. I wasn't even a twinkle in my parents eyes. I wonder if I built one, would people come? Or is it all just wishful thinking?

In short, I miss a lot of things. Tonight, it's drive-ins.

What do you miss?
 

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Ray made me miss Scholastic book lists in elementary school the other day.

I always miss Freshman year of college (& those other three years too).
 

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And nap time. I hated it then, but I'd kill for it now.
 
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Getting an allowance.
 

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I want the kind of social life I had as a child. I could walk half a block, knock on a door, and say "Can ____ come out and play?" without making an appointment.
 

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maestrowork said:
Carefree days with absolutely no responsibilities.

Ahhhhh me too. This grown-up thing isn't always all it's cracked up to be.
 

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reph said:
I want the kind of social life I had as a child. I could walk half a block, knock on a door, and say "Can ____ come out and play?" without making an appointment.
YES.

Want to ride bikes?
 

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Sex!

Oh, you didn't mean that kind. Mhm. Difficult.

The times where I didn't have to work, had enough money anyways and could just lay around lazily. Sometimes I miss those times.

There's a friend I miss spending time with.

And of course there's my girlfriend that I miss.
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reph said:
I want the kind of social life I had as a child. I could walk half a block, knock on a door, and say "Can ____ come out and play?" without making an appointment.

poetinahat said:
YES.

Want to ride bikes?

Can we go swimming after? :D
 

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I miss people showing up for visits all through the day just because they wanted to see me. I miss the phone ringing just because people wanted to talk to me.

That doesn't happen anymore.

We had people over a couple of weekends ago, but that was only because half of our roof blew off and we needed help putting a new one on. The phone only rings when people want something . . .

Depressed.now.
 

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My teeth, a regular bowel movement, and the hair which used to cover my forehead.
 

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I miss not having all the eurekas of my youth. I now tend to have more alases.
 

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rich said:
Some people don't have the kinds of friends who help put new roofs on.

I miss not having all the eurekas of my youth. I now tend to have more alases.

So much wisdom in one post.


I miss slow dancing in the early teen years. Just holding each other tight as you can, not really thinking about (or knowing) any 'next move'. Bliss.
 

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Playing flag football in the street; having a very bad garage band; watching "Robotech" all night; the bliss of ignorance about politics, money and power; and the unfettered sense of new frontiers where ever I turned.
 

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I miss those outside til dark summers, (Mom would say, "Come in when the street lights come on!")
I miss the person I was before cynicism sunk in. There are so many thrills in innocence that are gone.
I miss the great job I had in Chicago before I uprooted myself and came to St. Louis. I worked with some damn good people there. (though I wouldn't change a thing - I found my husband and had my babies here.)
first kisses. (in my happily married life, there won't be anymore of those.)
I miss the spontanaeity of life pre-family (and sometimes even pre-job)
 

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jst5150 said:
Playing flag football in the street; having a very bad garage band; watching "Robotech" all night; the bliss of ignorance about politics, money and power; and the unfettered sense of new frontiers where ever I turned.

outside of the garage band and Robotech (I'm sure we watched something else all night!) it sure sounds like the things I miss too!
 

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Being a track star in High School ............
Hanging around rock clubs and listening to live music ................
my dad, my brother.....................
certain friends.......
my old job...............
 
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