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Has anyone organized or attended any meetup groups? I've attended a couple a while back and just started one of my own. It's for married (or the equivalent) couples in our geographical area and age group, to meet and socialize with.
I'm somewhere between annoyed and amused now because I've had as many people join who didn't meet the basics as who did, and had to kick them out already.
I think it's very clear what the group is so I have no idea why singles keep signing up. Most of the social groups on there, by far, are for singles, which is why I started my own just for the marrieds. DH and I want to meet a few fun couples to hang out with like we had way back when.
Anyway, I am puzzled. If I was single I wouldn't want to hang out with a bunch of coupled up strangers. Well, most of them did seem to plan on bringing a date or at least someone they're not "married or the equivalent" with, regardless of what I stated. This is not hard to figure out when their profile lists a half dozen singles groups that they're in. When we're trying to find couples to have dinner and a movie with now and then, I don't want to put in the effort with those who are likely to not even be together anymore by the time we get to know them a bit.
Also, since every other couples group seemed to specify (often all in caps with lots of exclamation marks) "no swingers," I stated that, too. But from snooping around on a couple of the member profiles, I suspect some of them didn't pay any attention to that, either.
Or maybe people just can't read. LOL. No biggie but I didn't expect fully half of my sign-ups to be specifically who I was not inviting.
One woman, who at least messaged to ask me first if she could join anyway with her casual boyfriend, also warned me darkly that one of the other women who had recently joined my group is a bitch. Not sure what to do with that bit of news haha.
I'll keep y'all updated if anyone cares... Any strange meetup stories out there?
ETA: My first event is now full!
I'm somewhere between annoyed and amused now because I've had as many people join who didn't meet the basics as who did, and had to kick them out already.
I think it's very clear what the group is so I have no idea why singles keep signing up. Most of the social groups on there, by far, are for singles, which is why I started my own just for the marrieds. DH and I want to meet a few fun couples to hang out with like we had way back when.
Anyway, I am puzzled. If I was single I wouldn't want to hang out with a bunch of coupled up strangers. Well, most of them did seem to plan on bringing a date or at least someone they're not "married or the equivalent" with, regardless of what I stated. This is not hard to figure out when their profile lists a half dozen singles groups that they're in. When we're trying to find couples to have dinner and a movie with now and then, I don't want to put in the effort with those who are likely to not even be together anymore by the time we get to know them a bit.
Also, since every other couples group seemed to specify (often all in caps with lots of exclamation marks) "no swingers," I stated that, too. But from snooping around on a couple of the member profiles, I suspect some of them didn't pay any attention to that, either.
Or maybe people just can't read. LOL. No biggie but I didn't expect fully half of my sign-ups to be specifically who I was not inviting.
One woman, who at least messaged to ask me first if she could join anyway with her casual boyfriend, also warned me darkly that one of the other women who had recently joined my group is a bitch. Not sure what to do with that bit of news haha.
I'll keep y'all updated if anyone cares... Any strange meetup stories out there?
ETA: My first event is now full!
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