P.H.Delarran said:
a quick clarification,the verse in Luke refers to words Jesus spoke about honor, but in a different context than the commandment God gives in Exodus. in fact it doesn't even say "honor your father and mother" specifically, the Luke passage is about humility.
The commandment reads: (NIV) Exodus 20:12; "Honor your father and your mother that you may live long in the Land the Lord your God is giving you."
this verse/commandment was given to the Jewish people on their way out of exile from Egypt as part of the Ten Commandments. this was long long before Christianity.
i hope you're not suggesting that only Christians are subject to the benefits of God's commandments? Your parents are the ones GOD ordained to bring you into the world, i wouldn't even consider blatantly disobeying His command to honor them, no matter what their faith.
are you sure? i think i understand the discussion you were trying to bring about PuddleJumper, and it could have been interesting, but you need to see that the very way you word your questions seems biased and your replies suggest that only answers from certain viewpoints are acceptable. a simpler opening, like "honor thy father and mother: discuss" would have led to a more fair discussion.
I realize your motive is honorable, but feel it is important to explain where I was coming from.
The context of what Jesus was saying was not about "Humility" in a box, but about God's honor. It's the same general context of the scripture which is both Old and New Testament, God resists the proud, but gives grace to the humble. and "Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and he shall lift you up." (James 4:9)
I was simply making the point that "honor" as used in Jesus illustration had to do with elevation, and in particular, "being honored" in the sight of others. And if you look of the Aramaic for "Honor" in the Old Testament, and follow its roots, it is a positional term.
Jesus speaks of "Attitudes, values and priorities" in the Sermon on the Mount. (Matthew 5,6 and7)
Seeking honor is not a sin. This scripture in Luke is in the context of
"trying to impress people vs pleasing God."
It's not that you don't have a point, but it is a contextual point. Our pride (instant gratification) is what compells us to show off, and do things to impress people. (Seeking a high seat at the table)- look at me, I'm important.
The metaphor is not about men honoring, or that would negate what Jesus was saying. It's about us making God's honor our priority.- Thy kingdom come vs "My kingdom come".
If our attitude is in the right place, then God will honor us. If not, then we will eventually be humbled in front of the world.
In Matthew, Jesus implies that our prayer, our fasting, our good works, should not be with the intention of pleasing men, but also indicates these are not vain endeavors without benefit. He says God in heaven will reward. (See Matthew 6:1-7)
Again, Jesus said, "And the glory which thou gavest me I have given them..." (John 17:22) Humility and obscurity are not synonyms. The disciples had a level of honor. Hebrews tells us to honor those in authority over us. Honor, or elevation itself is not a problem. It's the motive of our heart.
Honor and glory are often interchangeable in the New Testament, and sometimes the same word is used both ways.
Why do I bother saying this? Because there is such a thing as "False humility". If God calls someone to the head of the table, they should not decline, in false humility, saying, "No, I will stay here at the bottom of the table to be humble."
As far as the topic, I think it is a great topic, and honest discussion is helpful, because it can be a platform for not only one person to benefit, but many. The subject may seem "Black and White", but the question of honor is a complex subject. I agree in principle, but not necessarily in practice that we shouldn't be willy nilly about any commandment.
I didn't want to get into spiritual laws/curses and blessings, but technically this issue falls under "conduits of blessing". If God makes a conduit with which he intends to use to bless mankind (which is generally people) never curse them. If you curse the conduit God intends to bless, your blessing drys up.
Parents fall into the "conduit of God's blessing". This was why God said to Abraham, "Whoever blesses you I will bless, whoever curses you I will curse."
Abraham wasn't always a stellar person. He lied to save himself, and almost got his wife raped in the process, using half truth and deception. Yet, when the king took Sarah, a curse came on him- even though he didn't intentionally do anything wrong.
God warns him in a dream and he gave Sarah back to Abraham and said, "Why did you lie to me?" (Praphrase)- the point is that because Abraham was a conduit of blessing, cursing him in any way would turn around as a curse on that person. And so, whenever you see God's annointed in any form, cursing them brought a curse. And this is why King David (annointed by Samuel) refused to slay King Saul, because Saul was at one time, "God's annointed".
Parents were meant to be a conduit of blessing, through which God would bless children. Now, parents aren't always the most spiritual people. Some are quite screwed up, and enslave, beat, torture, rape their own children.
I do happen to believe in spiritual laws, sowing and reaping; but with that said, wisdom applies to the question being asked. Situations differ; and how to apply this scripture has more to do with the state of a person's heart more than a specific course of action.
Personally, I don't think a broad brush answer applies to the question.