Climbing up on my soapbox again, just for a sec.
I read the article with interest, looking at it as a writer, artist, and former teacher of little kids. When I was teaching kindergarten and first grade, I told my little students early on that everybody makes mistakes, that mistakes are part of learning. That it was okay to make a mistake, okay to x out mistakes, erase, draw a smily face on mistakes. Those kids made a lot of mistakes and, as their teacher, so did I. We owned our mistakes, talked about them, drew support from each other, worked to learn from them, celebrated effort as well as final products. Learning was the main thing, and you learn by doing, I believe that.
As a college student in a well-known art college in Detroit, I had a different experience. Quality was key. Final product was everything. I had a professor once who told me, point blank, that it didn't matter how long a project took, didn't matter how hard I'd tried to do it right, all that mattered was the final project. That's what we were graded on. And sometimes, that grade was based on subjective responses from faculty and fellow students. Some people didn't like my work, some did. That's how it was. Teaching children required a big, big mindset change for me.
As a writer, I find myself in a different boat once again. I work on my own, creating something that I hope will be good, good enough to maybe sell one day. Lot of ifs there. At this point in my writing--I'm about five years into it now--I think I've accepted my own process. I've written more and gotten better at writing. I've grown a thicker skin, for sure. I make mistakes but I'm more aware of the traps I used to fall into, and have learned strategies for avoiding those traps. I am more inclined to fix what's wrong without too much heartache and heartbreak. More willing to do what it takes to get my stuff sold. I will never be a prolific writer, I've definitely slowed down my output since those first couple of fanatical years. . .
Bottom line for me is, I try--
try--not to compare myself. And I try to be kind to myself. And while I still make mistakes, I pull myself up and get back to it more easily now. Because I want to get my work out there and sold, and that is the goal I am striving for. And as long as I still like writing, I'm going to keep writing, at my own pace, and on my own terms.
Okay, off the soap box.