A female sex offender?

I make of it that a grown a$$ woman shouldn't be banging 13-year-olds.

Lantern Jack said:

I mean, more in the sense of the high irony of the case, it being a woman for once; is there a double standard in these types of cases (see my above post), that kind of thing.

I mean, of course she shouldn't have done it, but dig a little deeper, companero

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Gotcha. Here in SA, a columnist recently printed an article in our oft-subpar newspaper about the possible double standard applied to these situations in the court of public opinion. I.e. a lot of dudes hear about a story like this and immediately chirp "Where were these teachers when I was in school?" Or "Did you see that teacher though? She's too hot to be going after young boys anyway." As though if she was some hideous hag that would make it better. And of course, people don't usually make those remarks when it's a man taking advantage of a young girl. Double standard...mmm... I'm not going to go "yes" or "no" on that, not here anyway, but it's an interesting topic.

an adult who exploits, assaults or rapes a child should be prosecuted to the full extent of the law, regardless of the sex of either victim or victimizer.

Why is it always the really attractive teachers, too? Like the one in Florida?


Pick me! Pick me!





(edited to note that I passed right over jcomp's post or I would have come up with something else.)

Those poor little boys. Hanging around on my my space and being picked up by 28 year old blondes.


What has the world come to????

Those poor little girls. Hanging around on my my space and being picked up by 32 year old hunks.


What has the world come to????

Unwanted or forced sex, no matter what the age, is horrifying.


What you experienced was truamatic; some people kill themselves over that type of thing.


13 is too young for anyone to be having sex.


I thought boys dreamt of finding a sexual mentor......and a knock-out would be a bonus.


What she wants with little boys is another question. Can't she find enough college aged virgins?

HOw does one do a search on myspace for 28 year old teachers in bikinis?

William, I understand your point.


You were a young boy once.

Would you have considered her advances truamatic? Just curious. I don't know.

I do agree that it's some sort of weird double standard, but I can't exactly figure out why.

For example a hot female teacher goes after a 13 year old boy student, and people think he's lucky.

A male teacher goes after a 13 year old girl student, and no matter how hot he is, people think he's sick, and the girl is a victim.

Why is that? It is because we think the man only wants sex, and is taking advantage of the girl, and that the woman probably cares about the boy? Is it because we think girls that age are not smart enough to know if they want to have sex, and boys are? I don't know. I think it's equally wrong, no matter who does it, but I honestly don't know why people see the situation differently.

Also, I think the idea that the boy is "lucky" is probably not a good thing to perpetuate for boys who might be in that situation. Even though a 13 year old boy might be attracted to his teacher, he still may feel scared and not ready for sex. If we send the message that it's okay, because any male would want to have sex with an attractive woman, he may feel like it's wrong for him to be scared.

well, nobody is saying it's ok. She's looking at 7 years in prison.

this thread is disturbing on so many levels.

WTF is with the "wink" next to this topic.


grow up.

I sure hope she gets them, see if she keeps on molesting children.

Celia Cyanide said:

For example a hot female teacher goes after a 13 year old boy student, and people think he's lucky.

A male teacher goes after a 13 year old girl student, and no matter how hot he is, people think he's sick, and the girl is a victim. .

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Because our socieities still have their hangups. Boys will be boys (some even have rituals to "deflower" their sons with prostitutes, etc. when they're 16 or something) But a girl's virginity is sacred. Etc.

But I agree with William wholeheartedly. It shouldn't matter if the offender is male or female. We shouldn't have that double standard.

Shoulda. Coulda. Woulda.

Actually, I was raped by 6 fellow students...at school, so you never know who it might be.

And I was having sex (with a boy) at 14, does one year really make a difference?

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I think we talked about this earlier... but a) rape is wrong no matter what; b) there's a difference (at least it seems like it's consensus here) between two kids experimenting/having sex with each other and someone older than 18 "taking advantage of" someone younger and underage.

Because our socieities still have their hangups. Boys will be boys (some even have rituals to "deflower" their sons with prostitutes, etc. when they're 16 or something) But a girl's virginity is sacred. Etc.

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Yes. And, boys are generally more sexual (masturbating, looking at girly magazines or whatever,) than girls are.


We all watched "40 year old virgin."


Can you imagine if the movie were about a woman?

eldragon said:

I thought boys dreamt of finding a sexual mentor......and a knock-out would be a bonus.

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Why would dreams of finding a sexual mentor be limited to boys?

eldragon said:

Yes. And, boys are generally more sexual (masturbating, looking at girly magazines or whatever,) than girls are.

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Really? *blinks* My dubious senses are tingling. Going off my own experience as a girl either girls are just as sexually curious as boys or I was a freak. (And I'm well aware that the answer could be both.)

roach said:

Why would dreams of finding a sexual mentor be limited to boys?

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That's what I say.