i apologize, my shift key is not working --
our family members were friends of this boy and his family -- there were ongoing disputes but not necessarily about the girl -- and everyone in the native community is in deep grief and shock. he was a well liked and popular boy who seems to have just simply snapped. the thing is, i am deeply sympathetic to the community and to the other native youth who have to come to terms with what's happened, especially after the recent death of misty upham, who was such a role model. this boy was too -- he was admired for being from one of the prominent, wealthy for the rez, families -- he followed the traditional ways. everyone in the canoe families of the northwest knew him and loved him. all are shocked and mystified. it is a sad truth that many native youth die from suicide, especially at this time of year and who knows what his emotional state might have been, but we are all concerned for the youth who survive and who are in deep grief over these events.