I was in Annandale, near Poughkeepsie, at a VERY liberal college. It was fashionable for women to shave their heads completely, or leave one or two wisps of bangs. Guys were wearing skirts (a la Kurt Cobain) more than girls. I wore vaseline in my hair (never shaved it though) and put it in twin braids. I don't remember anyone dying their hair, other than maybe henna.
Overalls were big, as were clogs and flannel shirts. We also wore men's flannel boxers. Lots of clothes from thrift stores, often pants that were too big and had to be belted to keep from falling off. Jeans cut off at the knee and folded over to make a cuff, over stockings. Docs. I had a faux fur coat. I wore lingerie to clubs like it was a legitimate top, things like bustiers.
We listened to: Nirvana, Smashing Pumpkins, House of Pain, U2, REM, The Cranberries, Sinead O'Connor (though her stuff wasn't new anymore at that point), Red Said Fred (had a gay friend who sang "I'm too sexy" all the time), Arrested Development, En Vogue, Salt N Pepa, and Ani di Franco.
Other people were still listening to Poison but I thought their taste was irredeemably bad.
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