TV shows aren't necessarily going to portray the way most people really lived back in the 80s (or 50s) any more than they do now. What they do show is what was idealized or satirized.
Some popular contemporary sit coms from the 1980s era include Family Ties, the Cosbies, Roseanne etc. Some popular drama shows include LA Law, Hill Street Blues, St. Elsewhere.
With reference to the 1980s, if you're interested in learning what sorts of things people worried about socially and politically, hunting down archived Newsweek and Time magazines from the era might help. I'd guess your local library might be able to help you there. If you're interested in which celebrities (and celebrity gossip) was hot, old People Magazines would be of interest.
What is now called the culture wars, as well as the roots of the current Republican/Democrat divide re economics, had its roots in the 1980s, with the election of Reagan. He campaigned on an anti choice, anti environment, anti tax, anti feminism, anti affirmative action, pro prayer in schools etc. platform, and he was amazingly (and to me, distressingly) popular. The Moral Majority was a thing back then, as were Jim and Tammi Bakker, Oral Roberts, Pat Buchanan, Pat Robertson etc.
Sony Walkmans and portable stereos (boom boxes) were popular for a while. I was in college in the 80s, and it was still normal, though, to get together with friends and listen to music and watch videos together. Almost no one had personal computers in the beginning of the decade (still typed my college papers on a typewriter--ew), but macs became popular, and gradually more affordable, later in the decade.
For spy related stuff, Tom Clancy and Robert Ludlum's books were popular in the 1980s, but of course, those were fictitious books about cold war era intrigue and spying.
Two (non fiction) books popular in the 1980s were A Day in the Life of America, and A Day in the Life of the Soviet Union.
There was a lot of popular fear about nuclear war, and there were several TV shows and movies that explored the theme of what might happen after a nuclear war or bomb attack. The Day After, Threads (a British series), Testament, When the Wind Blows, Special Bulletin etc.