A friend of mine works in the office of an English department at a university. She's an administrative assistant. They have an MFA program there. She gets at least 5 people emailing or calling her every day asking if the university can "help them publish a book."
"I have a hand-written book. Can your department type this up for me?"
(Um no?)
"Can a graduate student type and edit this entire manuscript for me? They would love to gain experience, I'm sure."
(Because graduate students have all the free time in the world)
"I need one of your professors to proofread a novel for me."
(I'm sure they have lots of free time, too)
There are a metric sausage-load of people out there who do not understand how the writing business works. If you stop and think about this forum, there are a plethora of folks here who know more about publishing, writing, and editing, than most of the population. I come here and hang with people who are incredibly talented and helpful. And honestly? It spoils me. I start to think that
everyone is this cool and knowledgeable when in fact, sooooo not the case.
I would just tell this person that you're flattered and perhaps send a link to an article or post here on AW that gives him the ABCs of all this. A place to start.
Chances are, they've got big ole stars in their eyes (I sure did early on), and they just need a little information.
As for whether or not I've had people contact me or experienced weird things as a writer, well, yeah. When I taught creative writing at the jail, I'd have guys bring in notebooks full of their manifestos, their sci-fi space zombie novels, and letters they wrote to their judge. And they usually want it typed up all nice and neat, proofread, edited, submitted, and sent out into the world.
Students? The same.
Now, if they spent any time teaching publishing in creative writing courses and focused on the business end at all (in traditional programs), the students at the very least might start to "get" what this sort of thing looks like. The writing thing, that is.
Anyway, just my take.