Okay, I will answer the question that the OP asked. Remember please, that I'm only saying this because someone asked why someone else might dislike Fantasy. I'm not intending to incite the entire Fantasy community. I would kill and die for your right to write whatever genre you love, promise! And, I've read enough really good fantasy to know there are people out there writing really good fantasy.
I don't like fantasy where I have to work twice as hard to understand half as much. There. I said it. Some [okay most] fantasy that I've run into is akin to reading in a foreign language for me. And, I suck at foreign languages. Mi espanol es muy terrible. I won't remember what a gasordinplat was, and I have to go back and find out. If it has more than, oh say, seven made up words, it's gotta be so completely engrossing that I remember them. Otherwise, it's time to throw the book across the room and call it a day.
Also, I'm not fond of the Earth-mother-mystic trope. And, again, I run into it mostly in fantasy. She's magical, but she just didn't know it. Or, she's the matriarch because she's the most powerful/cryptic. Or, she's the incarnation of Spring walking the [insert planet here]. But she's always nearly perfect.
I like flaws -- hard, rough edges that people try to hide but can't. I like rage and violence or at least hypocracy. I like things that make you wince. I like taboo and fear. If the EMMT isn't going to be hurt, or preferably hurt someone because of a flaw, or in some other way be tried by major fire that CHANGES her, then I'm through reading.
Oh, and I don't want a D&D session written out; it's only amusing while you are playing the game.
*goes back to writing smut that could only be euphemistically called romance since the horror novel is stalled*