He said he wondered where Ethan was...
I don't have any idea. People react differently to emergency situations and logical reasoning is seldom part of the process.I get it, which is why I would understand if he didn't grab his daughter/wife, but why would you put the baby down?
Therefore, I don't presume to judge what others should have done.
I've read several stories of people protecting others during the attack. One story reported three boyfriends taking bullets for their girlfriends after they covered the girls' bodies with their own. Arguably the most vulnerable potential victim in the theatre, a four month old, was left by his father to die. His own fiancee put herself in front of the four year old.
It's never happened to me, but I just can't wrap my head around that reaction. Strangers take bullets, or get hit by cars for kids. This guy wasn't willing to do it for his own son.
"It just felt like the worst thing ever because my son's still in there," he told ABC News. "My girlfriend is still in there. I'm out here. Who leaves their child there?"
He was quoted in the interview as being worried that the baby's crying would attract the shooter's attention. Fend for yourself, Junior.
Can you at least judge that the guy doesn't seem to have the brains to be ashamed of this interlude and is taking this opportunity to grief whore all over network TV? So much distaste, so little time.
Another interesting bit; his fiancee called him, and he "drove back to the theatre."
I kind of, sort of, get his initial reaction of, as Kaylemay put it, being shocked into stupidity. Having enough time to run from the theatre, though, and then driving away? That's adds another element of self-preservation that reaches into uncomfortable territory.
Uh. . . what? Do you have any idea about surviving a battlefield? You keep quiet and play dead until the bullets stop flying. Having a/your baby cry is the last thing you want because it draws attention to the baby and yourself.
Panic and shock can also make one act irrationally.
Well, from what I've read, he isn't trained for battle, number one. Number two, it's his son! Not another soldier. He left a crying baby to fend for itself...that's highly different from running from a screaming, dying man on a battlefield.
But then on top of that, the dude thought of only himself. Gross. Why in the world did he put the baby boy down? I don't get it.
Would they be, like... human shields then?OMG, the more I think of this, the more upset I get. Not only should he have never put the baby down, he should have grabbed his daughter. A grown man can carry a baby and a 4-year old together.
I can't pretend to know what I'd do in such a chaotic, confusing situation (with, ah, tear gas), but if I were being all logical at the time and had access to my limited knowledge of ballistics, "down" is the precise direction I'd tend to favor.And he should have helped his wife get out as well. I realize it was a scary situation, but at the very least, WHAT THE FUCK was he doing putting the baby down?
Wait, what? Dying people around you. Shock, horror, panic.
This story doesn't make him a hero, but it doesn't make him a coward. I'm not buying it.
Perhaps because in a situation where bullets and shrapnel are flying, the ground = likely the safest place to be?
I can't pretend to know what I'd do in such a chaotic, confusing situation (with, ah, tear gas), but if I were being all logical at the time and had access to my limited knowledge of ballistics, "down" is the precise direction I'd tend to favor.
ETA: Also, the reason that the guy forgot his infant is probably that he was shell-shocked.
Respectfully, I disagree. Part of military training is to do things, in battle, that go against your natural instincts. Protecting a dying friend/child/soldier is often instinctual, but not a great battlefield survival tactic. If there is a screaming child, at risk of death, I think most people would sacrifice their own safety to help that child.This is my opinion, BTW.We're all just speculating. That being said, there are already countless stories from this tragedy about people protecting complete strangers.
Would depend on which direction one was running, no? Toward an assailant, or away from an assailant?Would they be, like... human shields then?Quote:
OMG, the more I think of this, the more upset I get. Not only should he have never put the baby down, he should have grabbed his daughter. A grown man can carry a baby and a 4-year old together.
Yes, and that makes them heroes. We're not talking about a hero. On the other hand, we are not talking about a coward either despite the fact that we want to paint them as so. The man is describing chaos and not knowing what to do. He has never planned on such an event happening. He has never considered such an event as possible. We shouldn't expect him to plan on such an event happening. We shouldn't expect him to consider such an event as possible.
The fact is, we can sit here and contemplate actions and decide which is the best, safest and most heroic course to take because we aren't in any danger. This guy didn't have that luxury. Fight or flight kicked in. He flew. So, he isn't a hero. A lot of people aren't.