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Hi,
Lupus is a good choice. It's not as common to men but for that reason can be for life-threatening-- and more serious, usually, when presenting in children. The problem of being immuno-comprimised, an issue for people with lupus, could account for his isolation and the fact that kidney shut down can come on quickly and unexpectedly could be what ultimately kills him off.
I have Lupus and I'm sure the good folks at the LFA would have lots of info you could mine and maybe some valuable exposure when your book is published (though someone dying of the disease is never *great* exposure) is always helpful to the cause. Maybe you could offer a % of the book sales to their research fund
in exchange for them promoting it???!!! Just a thought--but the hard facts are that Lupus kills people everyday, we just don't hear about it because it's not a high profile disease yet.
Best regard,
gloria