Can I Throw Up Now?

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I just sim submitted a short story to 3 publications.

I decided to join W1S1 to get over my fear of failure, and, on the flip side, fear of success.

Can I go throw up now?
 

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aw :Hug2: that's okay, you'll get through it.
I had my nervous breakdown yesterday cause of *gasp* someone reading my story. It's better after it happens the first time :)
 

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And over.


:D It gets easier. Honest.

And :hooray: for taking that first step!
 

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Yeah, you can throw up now :)

*passes bucket*

Don't worry, it gets easier. You've done the hardest thing of all and sent the first one! Congratulations!
 

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Congrats. I does get easier.

Hopefully these three markets are okay with sim subs, most take a serious dislike to the practice.
 

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Yeah, weird, isn't it?

When I sent my first sub, I felt like I was going to puke.

:)
 

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Yeah, you've got to sub another one now, just to see how easy it is in comparison to the first.
 

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Press send and then go check the sub call lists to take your mind off of it! Congrats!
 

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Thanks everyone! It makes me feel better to know that I'm not the only one to have a physical reaction to this...like I'm not as weird as I thought, or at least am in good company!
Press send and then go check the sub call lists to take your mind off of it! Congrats!
Sub call lists?
 

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I've only subbed a few, but got used to it fast, and I'll bet you do too. I definitely felt nervous the first time.

The other day though, I read some of my work out loud to a group of fellow writers for the first time. That was harder for me than subbing! After the first deep breath, I could only take shallow ones, and I only just got through to the end. It took a minute or two before I could breathe normally again. But I didn't throw up. (And luckily, neither did they.)
 

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I've only subbed a few, but got used to it fast, and I'll bet you do too. I definitely felt nervous the first time.

The other day though, I read some of my work out loud to a group of fellow writers for the first time. That was harder for me than subbing! After the first deep breath, I could only take shallow ones, and I only just got through to the end. It took a minute or two before I could breathe normally again. But I didn't throw up. (And luckily, neither did they.)
:ROFL:
I agree. That first one is the hardest. After that, it becomes easier and easier.
Good to know, thanks! Hopefully, that will be my experience as well!
 

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I just sim submitted a short story to 3 publications.

I decided to join W1S1 to get over my fear of failure, and, on the flip side, fear of success.

Can I go throw up now?

Brace yourself for when they come back. Those first ones are tough but DO NOT let them stop you. Do NOT. Make it a game for yourself to see what numbers you can rack up. ;)
 

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Every time I send off an article or a book that I've already had accepted--I'm freaked.

Every. Single. Time.
 

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Brace yourself for when they come back. Those first ones are tough but DO NOT let them stop you. Do NOT. Make it a game for yourself to see what numbers you can rack up. ;)
When I realized I'd got to the point that I was celebrating rejection letters -- because they were proof that I'd Done the Writer Thing and submitted stories, by golly! -- I know I'd come a long way.

But it's odd how, having come a long way, I can still be exactly where I was. I'm thinking about the afternoon that I waited by the locked outgoing mailbox for the post officer to come by so I could ask them to let me write something on the envelope that I'd forgotten to write on the envelope. The guidelines specified that I write this on the envelope. If I didn't, OMG, I'd be totally torpedoing my submission! Cue panic attack, hyperventilation, me glued to the window watching the apartment mailboxes, etc.

But it really *does* get easier. The easier just sometimes comes with flashbacks to when it was hard, is all.
 

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Brace yourself for when they come back. Those first ones are tough but DO NOT let them stop you. Do NOT. Make it a game for yourself to see what numbers you can rack up. ;)

In fact, every big round number (50? 100? Whatever feels like a milestone to you) of rejections, throw yourself a BIG F***ING PARTY, because it's always worth celebrating that you're still going :)

(Of course, throw yourself a party for each acceptance. Because there'll be some of those too.)
 

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By now, I have a handful of pro short story sales, and here is my dirty secret:

I hold my breath every time I hit send. Every single time.

<3
 

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You inoculated yourself today! Congratulations, Writer!

Okay, round 2 of nausea: first rejection.

Round 3: first acceptance. Seriously. I freaked out, had to read it over and over again to make sure I wasn't reading it wrong, pounding heart, desire to barf...it was worse than sending out that first one if you can believe that. (but, if course...better!)