Sat Nam! (literally "Truth Name"--a Sikh greeting)
All blessings for a happy life together!
As a long-time married lady, I usually give the following advice to newlyweds:
1. If you are arguing, check to see if the arguments are really about semantics. About 1 year into our marriage (almost 40 years ago), we discovered that we were saying the same things, but weren't recognizing it in the other person's speech. After making that discovery, 90% of our arguments stopped.
2. Keep a sense of humor!!
Blessings,
Siri Kirpal