I don't know if I have the right to ask the question, but hey, nothing beats a try but a fail...
I'm not asking those in the LGBT community to be the teachers or "experience" for heteros. It bugs me when White people want me to be their "Black experience" or Negro Tour Guide, so I have to imagine it works the nerves of LGBT folk.
But I am a writer too and accuracy matters to me. I don't often write about topics on the LGBT culture, but when I do, I don't want to accidentally stick my feet in my mouth.
I just listened to a podcast review about Pariah, the new film about Black lesbians coming of age. Now the reviewers were positive about the film with one of them calling it one of the best movies of 2011.
BUT....
One of the other guys made a really crude and tasteless sex joke. He was called on it, but it made me cringe.
Then it made me think. What kind of things do I as a straight man say that make a LGBT person cringe as well---or want to haul off and knock the crap out of me?
The only dumb question is the one never asked---so, I'm asking. Hope someone answers....
I'm not asking those in the LGBT community to be the teachers or "experience" for heteros. It bugs me when White people want me to be their "Black experience" or Negro Tour Guide, so I have to imagine it works the nerves of LGBT folk.
But I am a writer too and accuracy matters to me. I don't often write about topics on the LGBT culture, but when I do, I don't want to accidentally stick my feet in my mouth.
I just listened to a podcast review about Pariah, the new film about Black lesbians coming of age. Now the reviewers were positive about the film with one of them calling it one of the best movies of 2011.
BUT....
One of the other guys made a really crude and tasteless sex joke. He was called on it, but it made me cringe.
Then it made me think. What kind of things do I as a straight man say that make a LGBT person cringe as well---or want to haul off and knock the crap out of me?
The only dumb question is the one never asked---so, I'm asking. Hope someone answers....