So my YA novel (which will hopefully be a short series) has a bisexual protagonist.
She begins the novel with a boyfriend. I worried about it seeming like a "girl goes lesbian because of abuse" trope because her relationship was super unhealthy, but it's not in response to a specific trauma, and she expresses interest in the girl before leaving her boyfriend...anyway.
People keep referring to her as a "lesbian" character. I have a scene where they discuss whether or not it's okay to "like both" and so I thought I made it clear. But maybe not clear enough? Even my husband, when I told him about it, said "Aw, her boyfriend was mean so she got a girlfriend instead?"
I'm just trying to figure out if I presented it incorrectly or if people are just going to assume she "turned lesbian" because she begins a relationship with a girl. It's a little frustrating.
Or maybe I'm being nitpicky? Should I constantly correct people who call her a lesbian?
Anyone else have experience with this?
She begins the novel with a boyfriend. I worried about it seeming like a "girl goes lesbian because of abuse" trope because her relationship was super unhealthy, but it's not in response to a specific trauma, and she expresses interest in the girl before leaving her boyfriend...anyway.
People keep referring to her as a "lesbian" character. I have a scene where they discuss whether or not it's okay to "like both" and so I thought I made it clear. But maybe not clear enough? Even my husband, when I told him about it, said "Aw, her boyfriend was mean so she got a girlfriend instead?"
I'm just trying to figure out if I presented it incorrectly or if people are just going to assume she "turned lesbian" because she begins a relationship with a girl. It's a little frustrating.
Or maybe I'm being nitpicky? Should I constantly correct people who call her a lesbian?
Anyone else have experience with this?