How do you write about people from groups eg race, social class, ethnicity, that you're not a part of without being condescending?
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Yes it is possible - if you are one of them.
Of course it's possible. In general.
But it may not be possible for every author to manage it. Depends on your knowledge, and your ability to use available information to inform your imagination. You need to get inside your characters' heads; if you can't do that, I don't think it'll be a realistic portrayal.
This question suddenly came to me when reading Google Books. Is it possible to write about, say a homeless or "working class" person without being patronising
... suggesting that with hard work and being patient, a person can mostly rise to the top, and that luck has no role in it) or portraying people of "lower socioeconomic status" accurately and without stereotypes or condescension....
Yes, of course it is. Primarily by not doing this:
It sounds to me as if you're so wrapped up in labels that you're forgetting that you're writing about people, whether real or imagined. If you stop thinking of Joe as 'Joe The Homeless Guy' and just as 'Joe', or of Judy as 'Judy The Poor Girl' and just as 'Judy', you'll avoid most of the problem.
But if you can't get past the labels, your writing won't, either.
Thanks. This is an issue for me, because of the fact that (a) the protagonist is Alaska Native (I'm Chinese ethnically) b) I don't want to come off as presumptous by assuming I know all about what life is like for 13 year old girls, or that their personalities are all like mine, (I was 13 five years ago) or that they would all have my same attitude to life.You're right. It was the quote marks that got my back up. But you can see that so obviously it was just bad phrasing.
No problem.
Thanks. This is an issue for me, because of the fact that (a) the protagonist is Alaska Native (I'm Chinese ethnically) b) I don't want to come off as presumptous by assuming I know all about what life is like for 13 year old girls, or that their personalities are all like mine
(I was 13 five years ago) or that they would all have my same attitude to life
Yes, of course it is. Primarily by not doing this:
It sounds to me as if you're so wrapped up in labels that you're forgetting that you're writing about people, whether real or imagined. If you stop thinking of Joe as 'Joe The Homeless Guy' and just as 'Joe', or of Judy as 'Judy The Poor Girl' and just as 'Judy', you'll avoid most of the problem.
But if you can't get past the labels, your writing won't, either.
You're right. It was the quote marks that got my back up. But you can see that so obviously it was just bad phrasing.
No problem.
I'll try and get rid of the "Alexa The Alaskan Fisherman's Daughter" thing and focus more on Alexa (the actual protagonist).
Just don't entitle your book, "The Alaskan Fisherman's Daughter." Please, I'm begging you.
Do you mean it isn't if you're not? Does that mean that if you aren't from India, for example, you can't write from the perspective of an Indian?
Just a quick addendum.
There is nothing so patronizing as assuming that the answer you think you see to someone else's problem would work for them. Maybe it would, maybe it wouldn't. Maybe they already tried that and it didn't work. Maybe there were things getting in the way of trying that you didn't know about.
Or, maybe it would work. But as a general rule of thumb: the more obvious the solution looks to you, the more likely there is to be something you're missing. (Because the more obvious an actual, working solution is, the more likely someone will have been to already take it.) And, the more obvious a solution seems to be to you, the dumber/more stubborn you are assuming the other person to be by not already having done it.
Assuming that you have the answer to a situation you've never been in is patronizing even if you are correct. In order to not be patronizing, you need to consider the possibility that you might be wrong, that the other person knows something you don't.
People do miss obvious solutions to problems. People do reject solutions that are right in front of them. But your starting assumption should be that the reason they act in a way that seems counter-productive to you is that there are factors you don't know about. You should start from a position of being willing to learn. And the more you learn, the more likely you are to have a viable answer.
Yeah, I'm genuinely curious about this one, too. Have you done a lot of research on this aspect? If so, I'll take your word for it. But my father-in-law was a commercial fisherman, and it provided a nice middle-to-upper-middle-class lifestyle for his family, even though the work itself was very tough.Though I wouldn't for a second assume that the daughter of a commercial fisherman is poor. Most of the commercial fishermen I've known make a hell of a lot more money than I do.