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I've been doing a bit of reading on how conflict is handled within a family in a collectivist culture, and I would like to get a better sense of how an individual in such a situation thinks about that conflict.
Specifically, in the story I'm working on, a lower ranking member of the family disagrees with her leader. The previous leader was far better at organizing the family to take advantages of everyone's strengths; the current leader is more inclined to find fault with those who do not conform to her idea of strength.
What I am trying to figure out is, if the lower ranking character has a strong respect for the leader because she is the leader, how she would mentally process the disagreement. It would be terribly disrespectful of her to approach the matter directly with the leader, of course, but I am wondering how she would even conceive of the disagreement.
Several people have recommended that I look at Japanese, Korean, or Chinese culture, and I've done so, along with a little Mongolian. If you have insight from these or any other cultures you think might be useful, I would greatly appreciate you sharing your thoughts.
Specifically, in the story I'm working on, a lower ranking member of the family disagrees with her leader. The previous leader was far better at organizing the family to take advantages of everyone's strengths; the current leader is more inclined to find fault with those who do not conform to her idea of strength.
What I am trying to figure out is, if the lower ranking character has a strong respect for the leader because she is the leader, how she would mentally process the disagreement. It would be terribly disrespectful of her to approach the matter directly with the leader, of course, but I am wondering how she would even conceive of the disagreement.
Several people have recommended that I look at Japanese, Korean, or Chinese culture, and I've done so, along with a little Mongolian. If you have insight from these or any other cultures you think might be useful, I would greatly appreciate you sharing your thoughts.