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I need advice.
And before anyone tells me this is not an advice forum, this is the only online community I belong to, and you are all people who's opinions I value and respect; hence I am asking you.
My son came home from school on Friday and said my friend's son (who's seven, my boy is five and friends with this kid's little brother) got in trouble with one of the teachers because he threw sand in my son's face and called him fat.
The question is, do I tell his mum?
I doubt she would have found out from the school; he got punished, but only in the playground, not sent to the principals office or anything. I know she would be mortified if she found out, but will getting her son in trouble with his parents make anything better for my son? Is he just going to pick on him more because his parents found out?
I do think his parents would want to know, but I know so many cases where a parents attempt to make things better has only made the problem worse.
Any thoughts?
And before anyone tells me this is not an advice forum, this is the only online community I belong to, and you are all people who's opinions I value and respect; hence I am asking you.
My son came home from school on Friday and said my friend's son (who's seven, my boy is five and friends with this kid's little brother) got in trouble with one of the teachers because he threw sand in my son's face and called him fat.
The question is, do I tell his mum?
I doubt she would have found out from the school; he got punished, but only in the playground, not sent to the principals office or anything. I know she would be mortified if she found out, but will getting her son in trouble with his parents make anything better for my son? Is he just going to pick on him more because his parents found out?
I do think his parents would want to know, but I know so many cases where a parents attempt to make things better has only made the problem worse.
Any thoughts?