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I have a minor character in my current work who I'd like to have been born and raised in Hong Kong. She's living in Vancouver now, married to a Canadian-born man of Chinese descent (he speaks Cantonese, learned from his parents and community).
What I'd like is for there to be some subtle differences in her behaviour based on her upbringing. She's wealthy and educated, but my impression of women raised in the Chinese culture (even as adapted in Hong Kong) is that they tend to be more reserved, more formal with strangers, etc. I guess I'm looking for confirmation of this observation, so that I don't end up perpetuating an inaccurate stereotype.
In slightly more detail - My MC is a prominent garden designer. Not the financial equal of the Chinese couple, by any means, but socially prominent b/c he designs gardens for all the rich folk. He's established a relationship with the couple (designed their previous garden), and is now in a room where two new men are being introduced. My MC calls the Chinese husband by his first name, but refers to the wife as Mrs. Yueng. Is this weird? If it isn't strange, how would Mr. Yeung introduce himself and his wife, assuming he wanted the same level of formality? "I'm Vincent, and this is my wife Mrs. Yeung?" ??
Thanks for any advice!
What I'd like is for there to be some subtle differences in her behaviour based on her upbringing. She's wealthy and educated, but my impression of women raised in the Chinese culture (even as adapted in Hong Kong) is that they tend to be more reserved, more formal with strangers, etc. I guess I'm looking for confirmation of this observation, so that I don't end up perpetuating an inaccurate stereotype.
In slightly more detail - My MC is a prominent garden designer. Not the financial equal of the Chinese couple, by any means, but socially prominent b/c he designs gardens for all the rich folk. He's established a relationship with the couple (designed their previous garden), and is now in a room where two new men are being introduced. My MC calls the Chinese husband by his first name, but refers to the wife as Mrs. Yueng. Is this weird? If it isn't strange, how would Mr. Yeung introduce himself and his wife, assuming he wanted the same level of formality? "I'm Vincent, and this is my wife Mrs. Yeung?" ??
Thanks for any advice!