That's an interesting article. It's definitely a more in-depth look than the clueless ones from those newspapers.
If these people want to make a statement, why don't put themselves out there dressed like the opposite sex?
They're not trying to make a statement; they're trying to free the kid from having everyone's expectations forced on to them. How would dressing themselves differently achieve that?
Not to mention that they're
not dressing the kid up as the opposite sex. They're going with neutral clothes (say, green or purple instead of pink or blue) and letting the child decide which clothes to wear when they have the ability to do so.
I think it's really hard to approve or denounce this way of child-rearing since we don't really have any data one way or another. If we did have data and it turns out to negatively influence the child, I'd still be hard-pressed to say the parents were outright wrong to do it, given what a major factor society's obsession with the gender binary is.
I mean, I'm all for telling a child that they're free to end up dating/marrying whoever they love regardless of gender; if the child repeats that at school, that might cause some problems too. But I don't think it'd be the parent's fault for saying, "Love whoever you want!"
I'm also all for letting children, regardless of their genitals and how they identify, shop in whatever section of the store they like. Remember that huge fuss about the boy in the ad who wore pink nail polish?
While I think raising a child neutral until they have the chance to choose will have more impact on the child than my examples, I don't think it's necessarily different (or worse). It's saying, "I don't wish to expose society's expectations on you; you're free to be whoever you want to be, whenever you get around to making that choice." I assume that the second the kid goes, "Um, Mom, Dad, I feel like a boy, I like being a boy, knock it off," they'll do so.
But at least they had their options open from the start, which is more than most people get. At least they might avoid having an all-pink or all-blue room thanks to the gifts of well-intentioned relatives.
I don't know. I'm intrigued, but I'm not without concern for the kid(s). I'd be really interested to hear from them when they're older.