My hubby and I DO NOT fight...to the death.
We actually don't fight anymore, argue, throw little fits, yeah, we do that, but our days of screaming at each other are over. We did that for seven years...and then we figured out it didn't work. And I, admittedly, was the button pusher, the hitter below the belt and he was the stone-waller. We were kids, trying to be play adults...and finally we had to become adults. Most of the time now, if we start arguing...it ends in laughter because we realize how stupid we're being.
Though through all our years of fighting, we still would rather be around each other (even when we didn't like the other at the moment) than anyone else. Also, sex has always been a driving force in our relationship. We both enjoy it, both have a strong sexual drive, both feel very connected during love making, and should probably be instutionalized for how often we still do it.
My hubby is the type, that even if he was honestly mad about the shovel being missing, if I said, 'Hey, wanna go have sex?' He wouldn't give the shovel a second thought (until he needed it again). He's not the type to be lead around by 'his little head' (though that's a cute saying and I like it) but he does have high levels of testosterone...honest...I'm speaking medically here. And he is just as vulnerable to his hormones as I am to mine, when I'm ultra sensitive, crying for no reason, or mad at him for looking at the wrong way, or when I have physical side effects of the hormones like cramping and such...I know hormones are making me act a little screwy, well, same for him, and he has physical side effects to his too.
We are two very passionate people, and the thing with passion is, it's not just love. Passion is in every emotion, including anger, jealousy, and of course love. So our fights were just as heated as our love...We just had to learn that we completely sucked at communicating with each other and had to admit neither one of us knew what we were doing...then we just helped each other through it. And now we are having the time of our lives!