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I have a six-month old baby (well, my STORY does) whose mom has just been in a serious car accident. He was nursing prior to the accident, just about to be started on cereals but not yet there.
Since his mom is unable to nurse, I'm assuming he'd go to formula - it would be nice for the plot if he didn't care for it. I figure he could refuse to eat until he got really hungry, with lots of screaming and yelling. And then after he gives in and DOES eat, I'm assuming he could be colic-y from the sudden change in diet.
What I'm hoping to hear from you folks is:
a - are my plans re. refusal and colic realistic? What's a time-frame for this? How long would a typical six-month old go without giving in and drinking the formula, and how long would he likely be colic-y for afterward?
b - does anyone know what a motivated, problem-solving caregiver might try during the transition, to lure him to eat? I was thinking maybe we could try different brands or types of formula...and maybe different kinds of bottle? My understanding is that breast feeding is generally more work for the baby than drinking from a bottle would be, so maybe if they tried a nipple with a really small hole? I don't know. Any suggestions are welcome.
c- finally - I've heard of women donating breast milk to other people's babies, but I'm thinking that at six months, this baby would be past the point where that would really be necessary - I know that mom's milk is BEST, but at six months, formula isn't tragic, is it? Any experience on this? How wide-spread is the donation network? (My story is set in Ontario, Canada, if that matters)
d - I lied, (c) was the penultimate question, (d) is finally - would the mom's milk automatically dry up if she was in a serious accident? (I want her in a coma for a few days, and then a drugged-up haze of surgeries and recovery for at least a few weeks) I'm assuming the hospital would want her to stop producing milk so her body would have full energy for its recovery - is this accurate? Even if she didn't, it seems like there'd be too much medical stuff in her body to make the milk suitable for a baby, right? And after several weeks, she'll be dried up for good? Like, this non-nursing thing is permanent, right?
Since his mom is unable to nurse, I'm assuming he'd go to formula - it would be nice for the plot if he didn't care for it. I figure he could refuse to eat until he got really hungry, with lots of screaming and yelling. And then after he gives in and DOES eat, I'm assuming he could be colic-y from the sudden change in diet.
What I'm hoping to hear from you folks is:
a - are my plans re. refusal and colic realistic? What's a time-frame for this? How long would a typical six-month old go without giving in and drinking the formula, and how long would he likely be colic-y for afterward?
b - does anyone know what a motivated, problem-solving caregiver might try during the transition, to lure him to eat? I was thinking maybe we could try different brands or types of formula...and maybe different kinds of bottle? My understanding is that breast feeding is generally more work for the baby than drinking from a bottle would be, so maybe if they tried a nipple with a really small hole? I don't know. Any suggestions are welcome.
c- finally - I've heard of women donating breast milk to other people's babies, but I'm thinking that at six months, this baby would be past the point where that would really be necessary - I know that mom's milk is BEST, but at six months, formula isn't tragic, is it? Any experience on this? How wide-spread is the donation network? (My story is set in Ontario, Canada, if that matters)
d - I lied, (c) was the penultimate question, (d) is finally - would the mom's milk automatically dry up if she was in a serious accident? (I want her in a coma for a few days, and then a drugged-up haze of surgeries and recovery for at least a few weeks) I'm assuming the hospital would want her to stop producing milk so her body would have full energy for its recovery - is this accurate? Even if she didn't, it seems like there'd be too much medical stuff in her body to make the milk suitable for a baby, right? And after several weeks, she'll be dried up for good? Like, this non-nursing thing is permanent, right?