And Kitty, I don't know what previews you saw, but the film does not center on Ruffalo's character. It's the relationship of the entire family.
Anyway, my two cents: Watch it.
I'll add you to my list of friends telling me I should rilly see it
I realize it's about the whole family,not just the dude, but there are like no hollywood movies about regular lesbian characters (OK, I know there are
some, but recently, what? Black Swan? EEK. Girl With The Dragon Tattoo (ok, she's bi, but I'm feeling generous)? Are there any about lesbians who are normal, not severely mentally disturbed?)
So I saw the start of this trailer, and I was like WOW a sweet comedy about a lesbian family of normal people, with two easy-on-the-eyes gay moms, HURRAY! Then I see that the story is about a straight dude and what happens when he turns up in their lives. Without the dude, there's no story.
Why why why can there not be a normal movie just about normal lesbians and their families? Nearly every movie I have enjoyed with gay or lesbian characters was a microbudget indie movie, like
Were The World Mine or
Better Than Chocolate or
Touch of Pink or
The Incredibly True Adventures of Two Girls In Love or
Chutney Popcorn.
And (sorry, in full rant mode now), I feel like it comes back to the thing where all films MUST appeal to the largest movie-going audience (the almighty heterosexual white male), and everyone making movies knows that this speshul speshul group cannot possibly relate to a protagonist of color (exception: Will Smith, or an Asian guy if he is awesome at martial arts) or someone who is gay (exception: gay guys who are straight, like Team Brokeback Mountain) or a woman (exception: if she is a man-like ass-kicker with her boobies abouncing, and they carefully ensure that the film fails the Bechdel Test). So gay people of color, or gay women, or, lord preserve us, gay women of color, make terrible protagonists.
And the whole thing just enrages me. And yeah, in principle I have no problem with the plot itself. It's just the near-complete lack of decent representation of characters like these two women--making what I see as
their story be about a guy just makes me so ticked off that I have no desire to see the film.