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I've gotten two daughters as far as the sixth and second grade. Outside of a small hiccup a few years ago when I was labeled as 'anti-candy' for objecting to one teacher's policy of rewarding the kids with sweets multiple times a day, it's been reasonably smooth sailing. My girls are bright and easy going, so I've been lucky enough be able to stay a low-maintenance parent. I help out in the classroom from time to time and everything's been more or less fine.
Until...
Julia, my oldest, is in the sixth grade. It's the first year of the multi-teacher middle school format. And we've got a problem. In fact, I have a list of problems with her Social Studies teacher, but I've (at this point) limited it to one battle in particular.
In all of her other classes, Julia's test come back scored in the high 90s to 100 or better (if there's extra credit) but on the four Social studies tests they've had, each time she's gotten a grade in the low to mid 70s. The teacher sends back the answer sheets to be signed by the parents. In this class, the questions are given to the kids on a separate paper. They do not review the tests in class after they are graded, even though many of the students are dismayed by their test scores. (This tidbit was conveyed to me by my daughter, but confirmed by the teacher in a conference yesterday.)
So, weeks ago, I started asking for the test questions. I asked very nicely. I wanted to be able to go over the ones Julia missed so that I could help her understand where the trouble was.
First I was told that there was a only a classroom set of test papers and she didn't allow them to leave. Then she upped that to saying that she couldn't make a copy because the school was trying to limit how much paper it used. When I offered to return the test sheets the very next day or to donate a ream of paper, she said I could come in before or after school and look at the test under her supervision.
I requested a conference. Yesterday, the test papers were afforded nuclear launch code status and she told me that she couldn't risk them being 'out there'. She flat out told me I wasn't getting those papers and cited that if she did it for me, she'd have to do it for everyone.
So now I've contacted the principle.
My concern, which wasn't until someone else suggested it to me, is that Julia will suffer the inevitable backlash because the teacher will be very angry that I "went over her head". Has anyone else found this to be true or dealt with a similar situation?
Until...
Julia, my oldest, is in the sixth grade. It's the first year of the multi-teacher middle school format. And we've got a problem. In fact, I have a list of problems with her Social Studies teacher, but I've (at this point) limited it to one battle in particular.
In all of her other classes, Julia's test come back scored in the high 90s to 100 or better (if there's extra credit) but on the four Social studies tests they've had, each time she's gotten a grade in the low to mid 70s. The teacher sends back the answer sheets to be signed by the parents. In this class, the questions are given to the kids on a separate paper. They do not review the tests in class after they are graded, even though many of the students are dismayed by their test scores. (This tidbit was conveyed to me by my daughter, but confirmed by the teacher in a conference yesterday.)
So, weeks ago, I started asking for the test questions. I asked very nicely. I wanted to be able to go over the ones Julia missed so that I could help her understand where the trouble was.
First I was told that there was a only a classroom set of test papers and she didn't allow them to leave. Then she upped that to saying that she couldn't make a copy because the school was trying to limit how much paper it used. When I offered to return the test sheets the very next day or to donate a ream of paper, she said I could come in before or after school and look at the test under her supervision.
I requested a conference. Yesterday, the test papers were afforded nuclear launch code status and she told me that she couldn't risk them being 'out there'. She flat out told me I wasn't getting those papers and cited that if she did it for me, she'd have to do it for everyone.
So now I've contacted the principle.
My concern, which wasn't until someone else suggested it to me, is that Julia will suffer the inevitable backlash because the teacher will be very angry that I "went over her head". Has anyone else found this to be true or dealt with a similar situation?