I really need to let off some steam.
Okay, a friend of mine and I are having an issue. I started noticing when weeks went by and there was a lot of silence between us, which is unusual. We used to chat almost daily. I kept bouncing between thinking she was mad at me or just busy, and finally I talked to a mutual friend of ours and found out what was up. Now that I know, I've tried to get her to contact me so we can talk this out but I kept getting ignored. I know (via the mutual friend) that she's bothered by this issue and she doesn't want to lose the friendship, but seeing her clearly avoiding talking about it to me and acting like everything's all right to everyone else has just made me so mad I don't know if I believe it anymore. I keep wavering between wait-and-see if she'll eventually speak up or just forget the whole friendship. My brain can't comprehend this, I never thought she'd act like this when we had a huge issue. Anyway, had to let that off my chest.
Okay, a friend of mine and I are having an issue. I started noticing when weeks went by and there was a lot of silence between us, which is unusual. We used to chat almost daily. I kept bouncing between thinking she was mad at me or just busy, and finally I talked to a mutual friend of ours and found out what was up. Now that I know, I've tried to get her to contact me so we can talk this out but I kept getting ignored. I know (via the mutual friend) that she's bothered by this issue and she doesn't want to lose the friendship, but seeing her clearly avoiding talking about it to me and acting like everything's all right to everyone else has just made me so mad I don't know if I believe it anymore. I keep wavering between wait-and-see if she'll eventually speak up or just forget the whole friendship. My brain can't comprehend this, I never thought she'd act like this when we had a huge issue. Anyway, had to let that off my chest.