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A friend's recent comments to me bothered me.
Basically, she said something like, "being a writer is such an egotistical thing, like we're now going to bow down to you because you write a book or two..."
She went on to say the promotions and websites and book signings, publicity and all that further convinced her writers like me were egoistical, and she had no intention to become fans or groupies of anyone's -- that nobody needs to look up to others or live vicariously through another person's success.
My first reaction to her comments was "upset." But then I got to think: does she have a point? Are we the kind of culture that fawns over other people's success, or that this business is so about "selling" and "promoting" and "having fans" that it is all about our egos?
Basically, she said something like, "being a writer is such an egotistical thing, like we're now going to bow down to you because you write a book or two..."
She went on to say the promotions and websites and book signings, publicity and all that further convinced her writers like me were egoistical, and she had no intention to become fans or groupies of anyone's -- that nobody needs to look up to others or live vicariously through another person's success.
My first reaction to her comments was "upset." But then I got to think: does she have a point? Are we the kind of culture that fawns over other people's success, or that this business is so about "selling" and "promoting" and "having fans" that it is all about our egos?