Have a question for both men and women, and it does relate to a book I'm writing so here goes:
Political views run so deep in some people that it affects the way they approach life and relationships. Assume you're not in the middle of the spectrum, rather on the clear left or clear right. If you came upon someone of the opposite gender that you were attracted to beyond just physical, if after several meetings you discover they are polar opposite to you politically, would that kill your interest in them beyond the physical?
In the discussion with a few author friends it was split with half saying, "No way would I.." and half stated, "Wouldn't matter". Not sure whether the later just wanted to feel they were that open minded, were kidding themselves, or were open to the possibility. Could also depend on how far the individuals swing left or right. I know with my brother in law, he's slightly right while his wife is far left yet they have been married for 20 years.
So, bottomline, assume your views swing far right or left and the other person is a polar opposite, would you approach/risk a long term relationship or not.
Thanx
Political views run so deep in some people that it affects the way they approach life and relationships. Assume you're not in the middle of the spectrum, rather on the clear left or clear right. If you came upon someone of the opposite gender that you were attracted to beyond just physical, if after several meetings you discover they are polar opposite to you politically, would that kill your interest in them beyond the physical?
In the discussion with a few author friends it was split with half saying, "No way would I.." and half stated, "Wouldn't matter". Not sure whether the later just wanted to feel they were that open minded, were kidding themselves, or were open to the possibility. Could also depend on how far the individuals swing left or right. I know with my brother in law, he's slightly right while his wife is far left yet they have been married for 20 years.
So, bottomline, assume your views swing far right or left and the other person is a polar opposite, would you approach/risk a long term relationship or not.
Thanx