Learned it the Hard Way

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icerose

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Some things in life, especially writing, are learned the hard way. There's a few things I learned the hard way and I kick myself to this day for doing it in all ignorance.

Lesson Number One: All publishers are not created equal and simply because they say one thing doesn't make it true.

This lesson was learned from Punish Publish America. I was young, very naive, and I didn't have a clue as to how publishing really worked and didn't even know what questions to ask. Lesson learned and every time I think about trying for a smaller unproven press, that sting of that lesson makes me pull back really fast.

Lesson Number Two: In the script business, a % of nothing is still nothing.

I signed up for this thing where I wrote off someone elses concept and the person who brought us together would sell it. I'd get a whole whopping 35%. Well fast forward 3 years later and it has been nothing but an agony regret filled journey and guess what, still not sold. Now the person "selling" the script is trying to back out of the deal and still retain their percentage. Screw that.

I learned not to work for free. Ever. Even if it's a small up front, it's better than a promised percentage of nothing. It was my first and last. Deferment? It'd better be payable upon completion of this script.

Lesson Number Three: There's no such thing as a guarantee.

What writing lessons have you had to learn the hard way?
 

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Art is the biggest scam in the world, yet it is. The first artists (Greek) were slaves. The amount of time spent creating is simply not acceptable to those who hold the money strings.
 

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Thanks for contributing. There are so many lessons out there, I hope I learn most of them the easy way and that there aren't many more hard lessons out there for me.
 
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Check your ego at the editing-room door.

(It's incredibly liberating to do so).
 

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The harder the lesson learned
the more likely you're going
to remember it. Not saying
you're not going to make it again,
just saying you're more likely to
remember it.
 

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A very hard lesson I learned:


Beta readers and critiquers can take you only so far. You have to learn to self-edit and be ruthless with your own words.
 

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That editors and publishers don't always agree and a writer can be caught in the middle, without much chance of maintaining grace.

(I'm actually learning that today.)
 

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The more I live, the more I learn. The more I learn, the less I know.

Always trust my gut.

The real focus of the "how to write" books is to sell "how to write" books.
 

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That writing is a business, and must be treated as such on both sides of the desk.
 
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The more you learn about your own writing, the more you hate it.
That hasn't been the case for me. When I learn new techniques then I see my writing take that next leap and that's like tingly exciting.
Aye. I'm with icerose on this. The more I learn, the more scope for improvement I have. I never want to be as good as I want to be. If that makes sense. Probably not.

What I mean is, if my writing's perfect, where do I go from there?
That writing is a business, and must be treated as such on both sides of the desk.
I disagree. Writing is an art but publishing is a business.
 

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That hasn't been the case for me. When I learn new techniques then I see my writing take that next leap and that's like tingly exciting.

I agree with you. Anyway, I haven't learned any particularly hard lessons yet, but I did learn I use the word "that" way too much! And cutting it out of the text has been hard. ;)
 

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That I've been writing with an eye on publication for over 10 years...and for the first five of those years, I was nowhere near good enough for publication.
 
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