people who really don't want to hear the truth about things?
Green Newbie (name changed so as not to embarrass) got a very nice, professional, form rejection. Real agent, real agency, because she did her homework and knows who to send to. (This is a kid, here - very new at this).
It was the basic: Thank you for giving us the opportunity... we have to be selective because we already have a large list of clients... keep trying kind of thing. The kind of letter you file away in the "R" pile and move on.
Only --
She's convinced she wasn't rejected at all, just put on a waiting list. (Until such time as there are fewer people on that large list.)
This reminds me of something my mom said when I sent my first submissions off (as a teenager who knew nothing about what she was doing or that there was even a place to get info). She'd read my rejection letters (I think I got 5 or so) that had the "we generally only read material from agents" and think that translated into some secret code that meant the book was good enough (not by a long shot, but what did I know?) but they weren't allowed to look at it. (Nice conundrum there, no? They couldn't look at it, but it was great!)
Apparently that's not as isolated an incident as it would seem as one of the agent blogs I read had a similar entry about a woman who was certain her rejection letter was telling her all she needed was an agent and they'd get the contract right out to her.
So how do you deal with people who refuse to hear the truth? That sometimes a form is a form and not a golden ticket? Do you try to explain it? Or do you smile and nod and let them exist in their happy place until reality hits?
Green Newbie (name changed so as not to embarrass) got a very nice, professional, form rejection. Real agent, real agency, because she did her homework and knows who to send to. (This is a kid, here - very new at this).
It was the basic: Thank you for giving us the opportunity... we have to be selective because we already have a large list of clients... keep trying kind of thing. The kind of letter you file away in the "R" pile and move on.
Only --
She's convinced she wasn't rejected at all, just put on a waiting list. (Until such time as there are fewer people on that large list.)
This reminds me of something my mom said when I sent my first submissions off (as a teenager who knew nothing about what she was doing or that there was even a place to get info). She'd read my rejection letters (I think I got 5 or so) that had the "we generally only read material from agents" and think that translated into some secret code that meant the book was good enough (not by a long shot, but what did I know?) but they weren't allowed to look at it. (Nice conundrum there, no? They couldn't look at it, but it was great!)
Apparently that's not as isolated an incident as it would seem as one of the agent blogs I read had a similar entry about a woman who was certain her rejection letter was telling her all she needed was an agent and they'd get the contract right out to her.
So how do you deal with people who refuse to hear the truth? That sometimes a form is a form and not a golden ticket? Do you try to explain it? Or do you smile and nod and let them exist in their happy place until reality hits?