Most people ski glaciers on regular snow skis -- or use snowshoes -- I haven't heard of using cross-country for this type of terrain navigating, unless it's quite FLAT, ie, the North Pole or parts of Antartica. You didn't say which pole, north or south...
Since skis are much shorter now, there's not much diff between what a 12 y/o would use and what an adult would use -- they might be much the same. But that's not the issue -- the bindings (the things holding feet to ski) would be.
Bindings are sized per boot, per individual. The child have to wear the adult boots to fit the bindings sized for those skis. Unless she wears tons of socks to make them fit better, her feet would pop out of the boots!
If they're climbing a lot, they would not keep their skis on anyway, but lash/tie them on their backs.
You might check some Warren Miller ski movies (youtube?) - and watch some glacier skiing, if it applies.