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I was in my comic book store the other day when a twelve, maybe thirteen year old child wanted to buy a horror comic. I had already read the book since it had been out a couple months and remembered it being VERY violent, with torture, blood, guts, you name it.
My comic book guy, Matt, looks at the kid, looks at the comic, and says. "I hate to be a pain, but I don't think I should sell this comic to you."
The kid rolls his eyes. "Why? It‘s not illegal."
"We can’t sell Mature rating comics to minors without parents permission. Its store policy. I also know what is in the book, and I just don't feel good selling it to you."
He rolls his eyes again, shrugs, then walks out the door.
Five minutes later his mom comes in, walks up to the counter with her son, and hands Matt the money. "My son can buy this comic. He can buy any comic in here except those with nudity or sex in it. But other than that, sell him anything." She said the bolded words like they were curse words.
Matt nods, shocked. He rings up the book and the customers leave.
We both looked at each other, our mouths hanging open. This comic even made me squeamish at parts, and she is letting her twelve year old son read it!?
Matt and I then ranted. God forbid he gets a look at a nude body. God forbid he looks at something that everyone has done or will do in their lives, which is completely natural and wonderful. Instead he is aloud to look at torture, murder, and abuse. It doesn’t even have a happy ending! He is allowed to witness anti-social behavior where the killer goes after females more than males, and mutilates them. But he can’t read/see a comic with one scene of brief nudity, even though the rest of the comic could be the best written comic ever?!
Needless to say, it confused us.
And still confuses me.
Yesterday I came upon something like this again.
I was watching Stargate: Universe. And in the first fifteen minutes of the show there is a sex scene, no nudity, just some groans and breathing and revealing skin. It seems they like each other a lot, may be in love. It lasted ten seconds maybe? The rest of the show didn’t have anything else like that.
After the show I read a review. The person complained that Stargate is a family show, and it was no longer family friendly due to the sex scene.
Never mind that in Stargate SG1 the first episode ever had full frontal nudity. And the rest of the series had people being murdered, tortured, and enslaved. That’s family friendly? And its not just the aliens killing, torturing, or enslaving us. Its we humans killing other aliens, sometimes with no moral implications.
I am by no means saying I don’t like this stuff. I love Stargate, my favorite TV show! I am also a comic nerd. I enjoy everything, from the violence to the sex to the nudity. That’s life. Deal with it.
I am against censorship in all forms. But censoring your kids to well done brief nudity and feeding them mutilation and torture? But saying a television show is a family show and it is ruined due to an alluded sex scene where the WHOLE series has been about people, humans, being murdered, enslaved, tortured? (Of course there are humans fighting against this also!)
Doesn’t make sense to me.
Your thoughts?
My comic book guy, Matt, looks at the kid, looks at the comic, and says. "I hate to be a pain, but I don't think I should sell this comic to you."
The kid rolls his eyes. "Why? It‘s not illegal."
"We can’t sell Mature rating comics to minors without parents permission. Its store policy. I also know what is in the book, and I just don't feel good selling it to you."
He rolls his eyes again, shrugs, then walks out the door.
Five minutes later his mom comes in, walks up to the counter with her son, and hands Matt the money. "My son can buy this comic. He can buy any comic in here except those with nudity or sex in it. But other than that, sell him anything." She said the bolded words like they were curse words.
Matt nods, shocked. He rings up the book and the customers leave.
We both looked at each other, our mouths hanging open. This comic even made me squeamish at parts, and she is letting her twelve year old son read it!?
Matt and I then ranted. God forbid he gets a look at a nude body. God forbid he looks at something that everyone has done or will do in their lives, which is completely natural and wonderful. Instead he is aloud to look at torture, murder, and abuse. It doesn’t even have a happy ending! He is allowed to witness anti-social behavior where the killer goes after females more than males, and mutilates them. But he can’t read/see a comic with one scene of brief nudity, even though the rest of the comic could be the best written comic ever?!
Needless to say, it confused us.
And still confuses me.
Yesterday I came upon something like this again.
I was watching Stargate: Universe. And in the first fifteen minutes of the show there is a sex scene, no nudity, just some groans and breathing and revealing skin. It seems they like each other a lot, may be in love. It lasted ten seconds maybe? The rest of the show didn’t have anything else like that.
After the show I read a review. The person complained that Stargate is a family show, and it was no longer family friendly due to the sex scene.
Never mind that in Stargate SG1 the first episode ever had full frontal nudity. And the rest of the series had people being murdered, tortured, and enslaved. That’s family friendly? And its not just the aliens killing, torturing, or enslaving us. Its we humans killing other aliens, sometimes with no moral implications.
I am by no means saying I don’t like this stuff. I love Stargate, my favorite TV show! I am also a comic nerd. I enjoy everything, from the violence to the sex to the nudity. That’s life. Deal with it.
I am against censorship in all forms. But censoring your kids to well done brief nudity and feeding them mutilation and torture? But saying a television show is a family show and it is ruined due to an alluded sex scene where the WHOLE series has been about people, humans, being murdered, enslaved, tortured? (Of course there are humans fighting against this also!)
Doesn’t make sense to me.
Your thoughts?
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