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So, it's almost four am and yeah, I'm still up. Mainly because two hours ago while talking with a friend over Skype, I shared with him a conversation we had in the chat room tonight. One in which I was being so flippant about the only compelling reason for me to want to tie the knot ever again would be if I found a rich man. Now don't jump on me, I was kidding. (kinda..no seriously, I'm kidding).
I'm just not interested in dating or finding a special someone. I'm busy. So I told this guy friend of mine later on Skype and I got told, if I've lost faith in relationships it's because I didn't try hard enough in past relationships.
I was told, no...I really can't be happy single. I was flabbergasted. I was also told that I am depriving some man of his happiness by refusing to date or even attempt to date or get to know someone. That I have a responsibility to Mr. Someday to be out there so he can find me because if I don't, I'm making him miserable.
What the heck? So I'm laying here, thinking...wondering...am I on glue or did I miss the memo that says my life isn't about ME? I don't think I owe anyone anything and I certainly don't think I'm selfish because I'm enjoying some time to build a new career, work on my degree and write.
Am I missing something?
Signed,
Sleepless and perplexed in Salt Lake City
I'm just not interested in dating or finding a special someone. I'm busy. So I told this guy friend of mine later on Skype and I got told, if I've lost faith in relationships it's because I didn't try hard enough in past relationships.
I was told, no...I really can't be happy single. I was flabbergasted. I was also told that I am depriving some man of his happiness by refusing to date or even attempt to date or get to know someone. That I have a responsibility to Mr. Someday to be out there so he can find me because if I don't, I'm making him miserable.
What the heck? So I'm laying here, thinking...wondering...am I on glue or did I miss the memo that says my life isn't about ME? I don't think I owe anyone anything and I certainly don't think I'm selfish because I'm enjoying some time to build a new career, work on my degree and write.
Am I missing something?
Signed,
Sleepless and perplexed in Salt Lake City