I was just wondering if I was over-reacting and what any of you would do.
If you have an overly friendly neighbor who is always popping over, do you hint at your desire to be left alone or do you come outright and tell him to stay on his own property?
An elderly gentlemen moved in next door. For the first month he was quiet and kept to himself then my boyfriend went to help him out with something and everything changed.
Without so much as "hey, can I come over and talk to you a minute" he just strolled through the thin hedge that separates our properties, walked up to the deck and chatted with my boyfriend. He returned home and came back twice, just strolling in as if he owned the place.
This week-end, my boyfriend and I were on the deck talking when he arrived from his daily walk, strolled in from other side of our property (the side we usually consider pretty private because it is out of view of him and opens onto the windowless side of the other house) he came up to the deck, "thought I'd come over and pay you guys a visit," and sat down to tell us how he was doing.
I'm now wondering how long before he just strolls into the house...
If you have an overly friendly neighbor who is always popping over, do you hint at your desire to be left alone or do you come outright and tell him to stay on his own property?
An elderly gentlemen moved in next door. For the first month he was quiet and kept to himself then my boyfriend went to help him out with something and everything changed.
Without so much as "hey, can I come over and talk to you a minute" he just strolled through the thin hedge that separates our properties, walked up to the deck and chatted with my boyfriend. He returned home and came back twice, just strolling in as if he owned the place.
This week-end, my boyfriend and I were on the deck talking when he arrived from his daily walk, strolled in from other side of our property (the side we usually consider pretty private because it is out of view of him and opens onto the windowless side of the other house) he came up to the deck, "thought I'd come over and pay you guys a visit," and sat down to tell us how he was doing.
I'm now wondering how long before he just strolls into the house...