May I share a little incident?
About ten years ago, after graduating college, I was very happy and enthusiastic about my plans to write a book of memoirs.
I wrote to an author, a young woman I admired. She runs a foundation for an entertainer and is also an author. After reading her book, I was moved to write to her, and I shared events of my life about which I wanted to write in order to motivate others.
I was disappointed that she didn't even send a standard letter or a thank you card, let alone a written reply. About two years later, she came out with a fiction book that was based on (guess what?)...what I revealed to her about my life.
She created a fiction story around what I confided to her about my life and created fictional characters of my father and exactly what I described happened to him and our family.
I was crushed, devasted, cried for days and was angry for years...(it's been a few). I also shut down and never attempted to go ahead and write - afraid that she had ruined it for me because her book is fairly successful, and she is a more experienced writer than I am.
She's working on a sequel, and a movie deal too.
(I was advised when I finally mentioned it a former college professor of mine that unless I can absolutely prove it, I can't go public with her name without risking a lawsuit, but was encouraged to go ahead and write my book and don't dare let that stop me.)
Well, early this year, I visited her website and guests were praising her and asking where in the world did she get the idea for her book.
I wanted to jump in the screen and say, From me! She got (stole) the idea from me!
And so many fans are saying they can't wait for the sequel and suggesting who should star in the movie.
She has the nerve to have some babble posted on her site about her caring for people and God.
Disgusting.
That did it for me, I'm writing my book and I know that God is with me.
One thing though, I'm paranoid about sharing. I took a writer's workshop and would not use any of my real writing in class because I'm so afraid that someone may steal my ideas and publish them before I get a chance.
I'm even leery about sending it to publishers. What if they say they don't want it, then some experienced writer does the same thing to me again that this person that I admired did?
Anyway, just wanted to get that off of my chest and accept any suggestions.
Thank you for taking the time to read it. It's sincere, not making it up.
I was truly devastated. I still perceive her as a rapist and probably always will.
About ten years ago, after graduating college, I was very happy and enthusiastic about my plans to write a book of memoirs.
I wrote to an author, a young woman I admired. She runs a foundation for an entertainer and is also an author. After reading her book, I was moved to write to her, and I shared events of my life about which I wanted to write in order to motivate others.
I was disappointed that she didn't even send a standard letter or a thank you card, let alone a written reply. About two years later, she came out with a fiction book that was based on (guess what?)...what I revealed to her about my life.
She created a fiction story around what I confided to her about my life and created fictional characters of my father and exactly what I described happened to him and our family.
I was crushed, devasted, cried for days and was angry for years...(it's been a few). I also shut down and never attempted to go ahead and write - afraid that she had ruined it for me because her book is fairly successful, and she is a more experienced writer than I am.
She's working on a sequel, and a movie deal too.
(I was advised when I finally mentioned it a former college professor of mine that unless I can absolutely prove it, I can't go public with her name without risking a lawsuit, but was encouraged to go ahead and write my book and don't dare let that stop me.)
Well, early this year, I visited her website and guests were praising her and asking where in the world did she get the idea for her book.
I wanted to jump in the screen and say, From me! She got (stole) the idea from me!
And so many fans are saying they can't wait for the sequel and suggesting who should star in the movie.
She has the nerve to have some babble posted on her site about her caring for people and God.
Disgusting.
That did it for me, I'm writing my book and I know that God is with me.
One thing though, I'm paranoid about sharing. I took a writer's workshop and would not use any of my real writing in class because I'm so afraid that someone may steal my ideas and publish them before I get a chance.
I'm even leery about sending it to publishers. What if they say they don't want it, then some experienced writer does the same thing to me again that this person that I admired did?
Anyway, just wanted to get that off of my chest and accept any suggestions.
Thank you for taking the time to read it. It's sincere, not making it up.
I was truly devastated. I still perceive her as a rapist and probably always will.
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