Formerly desperate housewife
I was a desperate housewife for many years and I would go hiking whenever I could -- all by myself. Not only do you enjoy the solitude, but it gives you time to think lots of things out, especially things that don't pertain to the kids and husband. Reminded me that I did indeed have a life outside of them. I would also take Saturdays or Sundays when their father was home to meet friends for lunch, or even occasionally for dinner. Twice a year I made it a point to have a night out with the girls -- dinner, dancing, drinking (but not too much!). Staying connected to your friends is very important. As the kids got a little older, I had dinner with 2 of my girlfriends every other week. It was wonderful and it always gave me something to look forward to!