My puppy. *insert heavy sigh*
Ok, here is the thing. If I can't figure out something, and soon, I am going to have to find a new home for the pup we brought home from the shelter just before Christmas.
I think she is insane. I really do. And I'm not far behind her.
I'm a member at Cesar Millan's web community. I've received loads of advice there, and so far nothing is working. I watch his shows all the time, and we try to employ the techniques we see there, but nothing. I've read article after article online, and still no results.
Gypsy does not respond to things like walking toward her when she is being aggressive--that sends her into attack mode. We can't sit in the living room with any kind of food or drink because she takes a run and dives into it. If we see her coming and get out of the way, she still tries. She runs our older dog out of her food constantly. I put down two bowls of water and two bowls of food when I feed them, but Gypsy runs around between them all and poor little Sinner just walks away, sits and waits until Gypsy is finally done, and then she will eat. I have started blocking Gypsy off by herself when it's time to eat so Sinner can have some peace.
And Gypsy is destructive. If there is nothing lying around for her to break, she will take a bite out of the wall. The WALL!
Instead of getting better with her potty training, I think she is getting worse. We take potty breaks often throughout the day, but still--every time she comes inside she still goes straight in and pees or poops somewhere. I keep potty pads down where she ordinarily goes when this happens, but she potties beside them, not on them. The new carpet in the living room is beyond repair now. We are going to have to rip it up and throw it out.
My house is being destroyed. Our shoes are being destroyed. Everything we own is being destroyed. Everything we own smells like pee or poop. I go behind her constantly with cleaners, scrub brushes and sponges.
Everyone keeps telling me that since she is part lab and part golden retriever, she might be like this for a year, and maybe even TWO years. I don't think I can live like this for that long. If I can't find something that works, I will have to find her another home. I know she is a high energy puppy and needs lots of exercise. We walk with her, and we also send her outside to play during the day. But I just can't spend every single moment of every day chasing after her. I try putting her into the bathroom (where she sleeps at night) if I have to do something like study or take a test, but she doesn't just howl for a little while. Last time, she howled for three hours straight until we couldn't stand it anymore.
I just don't know what to do. I have never had a dog like this, and neither has my husband. She is so far beyond anything either of us has ever dealt with that we are miserable and clueless. The most unfortunate thing about it all is that we are really beginning to not like her. That's not good for her, and it's not good for us. And poor Sinner has lost all quality of life. She is old, and she gets no peace from the puppy. And now, since the puppy is bigger than her, she gets roughed up a lot too.
Besides walking her all day long, playing with her all day long, wrapping the whole inside of the house with linoleum and leaving Sinner in my bedroom all day every day so she can have some peace, what can be done?
Ok, here is the thing. If I can't figure out something, and soon, I am going to have to find a new home for the pup we brought home from the shelter just before Christmas.
I think she is insane. I really do. And I'm not far behind her.
I'm a member at Cesar Millan's web community. I've received loads of advice there, and so far nothing is working. I watch his shows all the time, and we try to employ the techniques we see there, but nothing. I've read article after article online, and still no results.
Gypsy does not respond to things like walking toward her when she is being aggressive--that sends her into attack mode. We can't sit in the living room with any kind of food or drink because she takes a run and dives into it. If we see her coming and get out of the way, she still tries. She runs our older dog out of her food constantly. I put down two bowls of water and two bowls of food when I feed them, but Gypsy runs around between them all and poor little Sinner just walks away, sits and waits until Gypsy is finally done, and then she will eat. I have started blocking Gypsy off by herself when it's time to eat so Sinner can have some peace.
And Gypsy is destructive. If there is nothing lying around for her to break, she will take a bite out of the wall. The WALL!
Instead of getting better with her potty training, I think she is getting worse. We take potty breaks often throughout the day, but still--every time she comes inside she still goes straight in and pees or poops somewhere. I keep potty pads down where she ordinarily goes when this happens, but she potties beside them, not on them. The new carpet in the living room is beyond repair now. We are going to have to rip it up and throw it out.
My house is being destroyed. Our shoes are being destroyed. Everything we own is being destroyed. Everything we own smells like pee or poop. I go behind her constantly with cleaners, scrub brushes and sponges.
Everyone keeps telling me that since she is part lab and part golden retriever, she might be like this for a year, and maybe even TWO years. I don't think I can live like this for that long. If I can't find something that works, I will have to find her another home. I know she is a high energy puppy and needs lots of exercise. We walk with her, and we also send her outside to play during the day. But I just can't spend every single moment of every day chasing after her. I try putting her into the bathroom (where she sleeps at night) if I have to do something like study or take a test, but she doesn't just howl for a little while. Last time, she howled for three hours straight until we couldn't stand it anymore.
I just don't know what to do. I have never had a dog like this, and neither has my husband. She is so far beyond anything either of us has ever dealt with that we are miserable and clueless. The most unfortunate thing about it all is that we are really beginning to not like her. That's not good for her, and it's not good for us. And poor Sinner has lost all quality of life. She is old, and she gets no peace from the puppy. And now, since the puppy is bigger than her, she gets roughed up a lot too.
Besides walking her all day long, playing with her all day long, wrapping the whole inside of the house with linoleum and leaving Sinner in my bedroom all day every day so she can have some peace, what can be done?